Approaching reduxPosted: August 4, 2011
since my “approach” post has had a decent amount of traffic and there’s been some comment on other blogs about said topic, i will offer my little “trick” to let you know if you have the green light to approach her.
let’s say you see a girl you’re interested in, we already know my “eye contact” rule. well IF she makes eye contact with you and doesn’t immediately avert her gaze….stick your tounge out at her like you were in grade school, then smile. i kid you not, this has worked for me 90% of the time. if she laughs or smiles……get your ass over there and ask her her name, if she doesn’t…..trust me, this is a girl who takes herself WAY too seriously and you’d do best to steer clear of her.
Johnny made a comment about approaching not being what most guys find difficult, but the sexual escalation is. to me, escalation is very different from “approaching”; which is where i feel a lot of men get nervous. i’ve said before and i’ll say it again…..i don’t pontificate game well. but how i escalate is to wait for a moment in the conversation where i can make a sexual/romantic innuendo or joke, i’ll gauge her response and determine if she’s into it or not.
but trust me, sticking your tounge out at her works.
[edit- i just remembered my go to escalation: making a mention about getting her pregnant. it’s too over the top to be taken seriously, and most of the times i do this, the woman laughs.]