Pobrecita. smh.Posted: September 11, 2011
i have a friend. a girl i’ve know for 6-7 years. she’s incredibly intelligent, and very beautiful. well she dated a guy briefly and broke up with him, “he’s a dick.” she told me. she went back to him (i didn’t ask at this point), moved in with him (she lived a few hours away), and ended up with him for 3 years. she recently broke up with him. i’ve made an effort to keep in touch with her more often.
oh trust me, she KNOWS how badly i want to get her pregnant. back to the lady.
so she dumped dude (righteously) and i learn he was pretty abusive. i won’t go to the extent of the abuse, but i will say…..if she were my sister, i’d put his head through fucking wall. she even dumped a really decent guy to be with “the dick”. dude was devastated and it caused a bit of a stir in our little internet family.
well, i was talking with her the other night and she informs me a “friend” is coming in to see her. the “friend” is married, and she’s VERY into him. *sigh* now get this, IMMEDIATELY after mentioning he’s married she states, in the same sentence, “i really know to pick them, don’t i?” this woman’s hamster is the size of the Kraken. she went on to tell me she was going to see it through to be sure it’s “the real deal.” i just shook my head.
i replied, “baby, he’s fucking married, he’s going to cheat on you too.”
i told her i was posting about her situation on my blog and she gave me permission. i gave her the web address and told her to stop by and read it. Sweetheart, if you’re reading this, i want you to realize the peeps that post here are just like the baggers, they are BRUTALLY honest. i have married readers of both genders, as well as single men and women.
i’d LOVE you guys to chime in on my darling’s relationship quandary. and i’m serious guys, i’m amazed a woman as smart and drop dead cool/beautiful as she is will allow herself to be in her current situation. and i WILL get her to come down to new orleans to play with me. lol.
[edit- i find it interesting that this girl, if she had a friend of her’s that were doing what she’s doing, would completely advise against being involved with the married guy. like i said, EPIC hamster.]