Meet “BritishLass” a virgin in the UKPosted: December 27, 2011
i received an email this evening from a young lady asking some advice in regards to losing her virginity. i have decided to dub her “BritishLass” or BL for short. from here out I’LL be naming the guests if need be, for i SHAN’T have another “name” debacle, like on the last reader email post. she’s asked to keep some details private and i’ve addressed her “issues” to what she said was satisfactory. i wanted to post this because….well, i don’t have a vagina and i’m well aware that it’s a bit differently for the most part for women. i figured the Ladies and possibly guys could offer more insight :
bold emphasis mine.
Love your blog. I stumbled across it by accident a few months ago, and now regularly lurk. Big fan of the food posts especially. I’m emailing you because I kind of wanted to run my current situation by you and see if you had any insight? I’m aware that it’s a little weird, but you seem nice so..
Ok. I’m 18, not bad-looking, virgin & never had a boyfriend. Never really “properly” dated a guy either. I’ve recently started seeing a guy who is *deleted* but let’s just say he’s older*. We spend a fair amount of time together, he likes me and my company & has admitted that he’s never talked to another girl in the way that he talks to me (and he was in a long-term relationship for 11 odd years) and that spending time with me “feels right and natural”. the rest was deleted but i told her i sense clinginess already.
The other thing is the virgin thing. He gets that I’m not being a pricktease deliberately and seems to be ok with the not having sex just yet, I know he wants me, but I’m aware that sooner or later the question of “how much longer” is going to come up. I think it has already really, he wanted to know if we were going to have sex at some point and I said yes, because you know, I am kind of hoping we’re going to have sex at some point but I can’t put a time frame on it! Would it be unreasonable of me – if the topic comes up – for me to say that “yeah i like you – I’m hoping we’re going to have sex at some point but you’re going to have to stick around a bit longer” Or is it usual for military “relationships” to move at a faster pace than civilian ones? I don’t know but you might? i already addressed this with her. she know just where i stand on this.
I guess my question is – is this “thing” whatever I’m doing viable? Or am I better off nipping it in the bud before anyone gets too involved? HELP! Thank you! there you go. guys have fun.