Let the Woman Chase You

everyone, meet JT. she posts over on Bellita’s site. haven’t read much of her stuff considering she JUST started a blog. but i went to her site and found a post where she passes on Morgan Freeman’s advice of “don’t chase women, let them chase you.” she then goes on to tell the tale of her grandmother and grandfather’s relationship. JT is a woman who probably didn’t need the red-pill because…SHE’S FRENCH!!!!!! ooh=la-la. lol. [edit-she’s actually British, but i won’t hold that against her. lol.] she was kind enough to link me and well, i’m still waiting to hear why she decided to link me so until i do she’s on probation status on the blogroll. here’s her post. it’s pretty good.

http://thesanctuary-spacetraveller.blogspot.com/2011/12/let-woman-chase-you.html


12 Comments on “Let the Woman Chase You”

  1. MissMarie says:

    That didn’t work out really well for me, but I suppose if you do it with the right guy it would…

  2. Jennifer says:

    You shouldn’t have to chase a man, and he shouldn’t have to chase you. But when women chase, it seems especially a turn-off.

  3. MissMarie says:

    See, that’s where I made the mistake, I started chasing too aggressively too early. There were certainly IOI’s, he was very attracted to me. But, silly me, not knowing any better, I was just sexually aggressive. You apparently have to wait for deeper interest than sexual before you chase back 😉

    • dannyfrom504 says:

      good girl. you gave him no reason to remain interest. you played your trump card too early and didn’t “reward” him when it was appropriate.

      hunting wouldn’t have the same appeal if the turkey just walked up and laid down in front of me. i mean, i’ll still eat it, but not having to work for it takes some of the fun out of it.

      • MissMarie says:

        Yep. Funny thing, when I don’t text or call or make a move he just shows up like magic, all on his own! 😉 Keeps teasing, too, putting me in situations that in the past I would have made a moveon him in. I’m not biting. I learned me sumfin! Haha

    • JT says:

      MissMarie,

      ‘You apparently have to wait for deeper interest than sexual before you chase back’

      THIS is precisely what I am saying. You only chase BACK after you are secure in the knowledge that he is emotionally invested.
      Reading my post again back to myself, I realise I did something sneaky: I used Morgan Freeman’s catchphrase to make my point. But his point and my point are in fact not identical. I am sure Morgan Freeman was referring to letting a woman chase a man at the start of their encounter/relationship.
      What I mean is exactly what you say above.
      Sorry for the confusion…
      Thanks for giving me the chance to redeem myself here…

      I blame Newblogger-itis 🙂

      • dannyfrom504 says:

        “What I mean is exactly what you say above. Sorry for the confusion… Thanks for giving me the chance to redeem myself here…

        I blame Newblogger-itis :-)” i shall pardon you just this once. ;D when i read your post then your comment, i thought, “silly gurl.”


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