Alpha vs. BetaPosted: March 1, 2012 | |
i work with 5 women. they range from all ethnicities, ages, and marital status’. some are very quiet and demure ,some have dominant personalities. most of the time at work, i’m cheery, personable, joking and VERY pleasantly natured. basically, I’M BETA. seriously. to be honest i’m on beta-idle *GASP!!!* 99% of the time. the alpha comes out when it needs to and i’m QUITE comfortable letting loose the inner-asshole when i need it. i’m VERY laid-back….until you fuck with me, then the beta gives way and the wolf shows up. don’t believe me….
well the woman working with me now got sick, REAL sick 2-3 weeks ago. i’m talking about she was hospitalized sick. when i was working i stopped to go check on her on the ward. she looked bad, but she didn’t need anything from me. well, she’s really can’t eat and today at work she looked rough. she told me she was going to the lab to get work done and i told her ok. she came back a few minutes later and said the line was too long. the blood-work she was doing required her to fast for 10-12 hours. i knew she needed to eat so i looked her dead in the eyes and said, “P******** get your ass to the lab, and get your blood-work done NOW. i don’t care if you have to wait an hour, next time i see you you better have coban (what they use to secure gauze after you get blood drawn) around your arm. i used my “big-boy” voice when i spoke. she looked at me briefly, grabbed her pocket-book and left. i should point out, i was speaking to a VERY dominant black woman that NO ONE fucks with in my work-space.
i saw her 20 minutes later and she stuck out her arm revealing the blue coban and widened her eyes making the “YOU SEE” face. i told her, “good. now go eat and i want to see you pounding water and gatorade. and i’m SOOOOO far from fucking with you about this.” she nodded and i have to admit, i saw her drinking all throughout the day.
i didn’t pull rank on her at all, all i did was INSIST on her getting her stuff taken care of. i was concerned for her and she forced my hand. i don’t get like that often, but i was VERY serious and when i get serious it’s VERY noticeable.
grrrrrrr…. lol. stay up.