Game school 101Posted: April 3, 2012
one thing i’ve noticed about all the guys i know who are good with women, and it’s confidence. but where did you think that comes from? i know i’m decent with women, and there’s a reason for it. i realized it while talking to a friend earlier and making a brilliant realization. i have NO approach anxiety, i have a keen IOI meter, I’m quick on my feet with responses, and i’m a great conversationalist.
i’m also a teacher.
ok, ok, ok…not a FORMAL teacher, but during my 18 years in the navy i’ve been:
- and EMT instructor
- a BLS instructor (basic life support)
- PHTLS instructor (pre hospital trauma life support instructor)
- ACLS instructor (advanced cardiac life support, teaching doctors no less)
- TCCC instructor (combat casualty care)
what does this have to do with ANYTHING? easy…
public speaking. i HAVE to be able to read a class and know when i’m losing their attention. my goal is for them to learn so i have to be dynamic and personable. i have to be likable and i DAMN sure better know my subject matter. fact: public speaking if one of the biggest phobias among most people. one of the first classes i took in college was public speaking and i aced it. i’d suggest all you guys out there looking to get better with chatting up women to take a PS class or a few acting classes. seriously.
but there’s more to it. i also get a TON of confidence due to my fighting ability. seriously, having some experience with krav maga (i’m starting training again soon) gives me a HUGE dose of confidence. fact is, most american men DO.NOT.FIGHT. or they won’t unless they REEEEEALLY need to, and more then likely they’ll fight poorly.
if you push me, if you try and butt heads with me….you will have a fight on your hands. i don’t care if i win or lose, i only care about causing you pain and defending those entrusted to my care. i found out a female family member had some issues with a guy. the family worked diligently to make sure i didn’t find out because i’d have pointed my car west and driven right to this individuals house to beat the piss out of him. when i asked why i wasn’t told my mother told me, “i didn’t want my son in jail. look at you…..you’re pacing.” she was right….i was fucking pissed. i have a protective streak a mile wide. DO.NOT.FUCK with females in my family or my woman. period.
so…..public speaking= social dominance. fighting= displays of strength and power. if you know a woman that DOESN’T melt with that combination, it’s because she likes girls. confidence, social skills, strength, humor, and red-pill mind set.
do that….and you’ll get the girl. or, at the very least, be better at making her work to catch you.