Getting a second datePosted: April 5, 2012
i LOVE reading women giving relationship advice. i stumbled up this gem and figured i’d tell women how to REALLY cop a second date.
it’s the very last part of the article that got the dreaded *facepalm*. talk about no shit sherlock. ladies, you want to know how to cop a second date, here yah go.
- be feminine
- be fun
- be friendly/flirty
look a first date is an interview, we all know that. you’re selling YOU Inc. so go ahead and be a stiff, over-bearing shrew. go ahead and unload all your issues….see where that gets you. no guy wants to be around a woman like that, ESPECIALLY on a date. i was on a first date with a 23 year old woman (i was 28) and she was on her phone as i drove us to lunch- then i heard, “GOD ALRIGHT, QUIT BEING A BITCH!!!” and she hung up. then she said, “God my mom can be such an ass at times.”
as far as i was concerned, the date was over. when i dropped her off, she mentioned having a great time and was looking forward to doing it again. “uuuuuh, yeah….i don’t think so.” i replied. she looked stunned and asked what was wrong. long story short i told her calling her mom a bitch rubbed me the wrong way. she asked me why the hell that would bother me so much and i told her:
“if you have that little respect for your mother, you’ll cut my throat if you get pissed at me. no thanks, best of luck to you.”
and i walked off.
Tia Susan posted a great article along the same lines, but it’s actually good in comparison to the MSN article- not that she needs MORE traffic. lol.