Mexican GirlsPosted: May 19, 2012
Spacetraveller recently asked me as to my preference to Mexican girls, and attributing it to my mother being Mexican. I can see the rationale in the Oedipean led assumption, but sorry. While I WOULD like to find a woman who is like my mother- it has more to do with her morals and beliefs, NOT looks. I’ve ALWAYS liked Spanish woman. I didn’t learn this until I was in 3rd grade. Her name was Wendy and my boyish heart exploded when I met her. I had the most serious crush on Wendy that it was silly. NEVER told her though….I was too scared. Of course, Spanish women play up their daughters feminimity at a VERY early age. They are made well aware of the fact that they’re girls, and they’re different.
Growing up in a Mexican-Cajun home was the same as any other Mexican household. Boys were boys, girls were girls. There was boy work, and girl work. NO ONE ate until my Paw-Paw had started eating and no one got seconds until he was done. When I was done eating I brought my dish to Maw-maw for her to wash, and the girls had to help. Boys worked outside. Yes, I know- typical patriarchial household. Well, guess what feminists……it worked. I was taught absolute respect for women and to judge based on character, NOT gender. I was taught to respect those older then me, and to listen to adults. It’s almost pretty typical in the South tbh.
Of course I’ve dated white American women; banged quite a few as well. But through personal experience I’ve learned- by and large, that with most American white women: you can’t please them, and they generally don’t know what they want. Now, before ANY of you ladies get pissy- hear me out. Whenever I tell this to my ethnic or non-American female friends (asian, black, spanish), they ALWAYS agree with me. I learned this by dating white girls and being friends with them. When you hear, “I don’t know….I mean he’s ok and all, but it just feels like something’s missing.” it’s usually a white girl saying it about a decent guy. Hell these women usually come to me for advice and I have to ask them….”is there physical or emotional abuse? Is there chemical dependence? If not…..what’s the problem? Why are you unhappy?”
Now, I’m not here to point fingers and say if you fall into the “white American woman” I codemn you to a life of spinster-hood. But if you spend anytime around the MRA or MGTOW sites you’ll see a common and typical solution for American men that are marriage minded-
Expatriation. Yup. Rather than get married in the US where the laws are so crushingly against men, they’re telling young men to leave the US and marry in another country where men are appreciated.
Now….rather than pointing fingers , I prefer to offer solutions. I can say…..from my experience; when I’ve been involved with a white girl (such as in…my LAST gf), I was NOT appreciated and felt taken for granted. I brought A LOT to the table, whereas she didn’t. I ended it after 3 months, and she cheated on me btw. I’ve lived (not visitied) but LIVED in 3 foreign countries. And the common theme was that the women HATED being out there. You see, MOST of the military guys stick to dating local girls. And you’ll find all the American 7-9’s dating the leftover’s. There were still the guys that still couldn’t get laid, but you found them closing the 3-6’s and I’ve seen VERY unattractive women devolope INSANE entitlement sensibilities while stationed overseas
Again….I digress, sorry.
Back to Mexican girls. They appear to fall into 2 camps: the ones that only date spanish guys and the ones that prefer white-boys. The one’s that like white-boys REALLY like white-boys that can speak spanish. You’ll commonly hear guys say, “Mexican girls are psychos”, to which I have to laugh and reply, “all women are psychos.” Lol. I keed I keed. So WHY do I prefer them and tend to stay away from white women? Mexican women are typically taught very early to celebrate their feminimity. When they’re in a relationship, they are very affectionate and tender, and they usually have ZERO sexual hang-ups. But better than that, they APPRECIATE a good man, and they celebrate masculinity. One thing I tell guys that want to venture south of the border is, “you better stick to your boundaries and not be a whiny, clingy man. She’ll dump you in a second.”
I realize this is true for ALL women but the difference here is the return you get from your Latina lass. You get a loving, sweet, bold, tender, fiery Spanish speaking companion that WILL NOT shame you for being a MAAAAAAAN. And if anyone fucks with you, she’ll shank their ass.
Does this mean I’ll never date a white girl, of course not. But I PREFER to date Mexican or Spanish speaking women. I understand them, and they appreciate my efforts. Obviously, I’m NOT referring to the ladies that read this site, for the most part, red pill minded women get it, and I’m sure they cherish the men in their lives.