Short post tonight, like me. book zone…..
“Wuthering Heights, by Emily Bronte”. One of my faves. Read and enjoy.
tonight………..INTERPOL. RIP. TOTBL is by far one of my favorite albums to this day.
this one is my personal fave.
As you progress on your Red-Pill journey you’ll eventually be called a “player”. This is when you know you’re doing it right. I get told I’m a player ALL.THE.TIME. But I’m not- seriously, I’m not. This is just one of the many shit tests you’ll get from women. “Player” carries with it negative connotations, so she’s calling you a cad simply because you’re giving her tingles, so the hamster tells her “it’s becuase he sleeps with a TON of women.”
I’ve always advocating the “agree and amplify” principle. I’ve exhausted my, “No I’m not a player, I’m THE player. I have close to 300 girfriends.” Then I wink. NEVER Had it fail. Here’s a few others that NUKE her player hamser. Thank me later.
· Not only am I a player, I also play one on TV.
· No Dear, I’m not a player. But I DO know how to play. *wink*
· Not only am I a player, but I have a PhD and teach at the University of Player.
· No I’m not. Just don’t tell my girfriend I said that.
· I dunno. But my mom told me this line ALWAYS works on
chicks….insert any awful line.
· I don’t think it’s fair to call me a player until AFTER we have sex. *roll eyes* You gotta be ballsy to pull this one. I use it on REALLY good looking women.
· I’ll tell you in the morning. How do you like your eggs: scrambled or fertilized? Stick out your tongue playfully. i LOVE this one.
Best of luck. Now get out there and make some girl smile.
i wrote this and it got erased. so i’m not even going to try and be grammatically correct.
the first time i fuck a woman…..i want to get a feel for her body. i want to learn where she likes and does not like to be touched. when i fuck a new woman (that i like) i kiss every inch of her. i touch her entire body. i want to know every part of her that makes her tingle. i can only do that by touching and kissing every inch of her.
what do i do?
well, first off……when i find an area that she’s sensitive, i lick then blow. as in- i lick the area lightly then blow across the spot i licked. then, i kiss the are tenderly.
most men know the basic spots: neck, breasts, thighs, lower back, shoulders. BUT, have you kissed her behind her knees? have you licked her shoulder blades? EXPLORE her. know every inch of her. that’s what make her your woman. i LOVE the woman i’m intimate with. and i know where she likes to be touched and how she likes that area touched.
when you have her- naked, at your beck and call…..for the first time, touch/kiss every inch of her. get to know her. EXPLORE her. that’s 99% of the fun of having a new woman.
happy hunting. stay up.
I’ve spent many years learning about seduction/influence. It’s always fascinated me. I’ve had more than one post on how I go about chatting up girls. It’s a system I learned by studying and reading books on Eastern Philosophy regarding the subject. Most people hear seduction and think “getting someone into bed.” Such thoughts truly offer a narrow vision as to the REAL power of seduction.
Seduction is enticement. Nothing more, nothing less. It is not good nor evil (much like game); the context of the user is what makes seduction good or bad- whether your goal is to get the cutie into the sack, or learn an enemies secrets to plan an attack, is up to you. Whether you use more nefarious means, or playful luring…..again, your call. I’ll do my best to include exercises for you to practice over a week. Then I’ll follow up and see if anyone “got better”. I take ZERO responsibility for the manner in which you choose to use this. But it can be VERY helpful in assisting in “reading” someone.
There’s a LOT of technicality to this that I won’t bother with. I’ll just stick to the meat an potato’s. This knowledge is gender neutral, ANYONE can learn and use it. I very well may be repeating what “PUA game” sites have stated, but this is how I developed from what I’ve studied and had to use personally. Let’s get started.
In order to know what type of personality you’re dealing with you must LISTEN to them. Crash course here guys. When I first talk to someone, I pay attention to the words they use. Mostly- do I sense negativity or positivity? If sense negativity in a woman, I bail or use their negativity to find out as much as I can about them to find what angle I can work. Keep them talking long enough and they’ll usually tell you their weakness or willingness.
There’s a VERY good reason I use humor from the beginning of any human interaction. Lowering the minds defenses is crucial to seduction. You don’t want them “on guard” or suspicious of you. This can be done in less than 1 minute. IF you don’t have the luxury of being able to find out as much about them as you can beforehand, you have to begin slowly and open them up to revealing details about themselves. Humor is ALWAYS my strategy.
Once you’ve committed to seduction you must coax them into your world. Not the past and not the future. If the person is preoccupied with what happened at work, they aren’t listening to you. If she’s concerned about all the guys that have fucked her over in the past….chances are you’ll never be one of the those guys that gets to see her naked. If she’s concerned about that paper she hasn’t worked on, she not concerned with what an awesome dude you are. How do you keep them out of the past or future? You keep them in the NOW. One of my favorite lines is if a woman is complaining about the guys in her past I redirect/frame her with, “Let’s not talk about things that didn’t work out.” This is a VERY powerful frame.
Age plays a HUGE part of seduction. The young adversary is usually vain and impatient. A young love usually feels they deserve attention or are too smart to fall for a trick. For older women, they usually want to feel useful and needed. A young woman looking to seduce a man simply offers herself as a gift, with MANY strings attached. Gold diggers do it all the time. Looking to seduce an older man, have him teach you something. Thus you gain his confidence and influence.
Like I said, it can be VERY dark. But at the same time VERY useful in life.
So…..how do I seduce.
1- Lower their defenses. Make them laugh and feel comfortable.
2- Listen to them VERY intently, what kind of adjectives do they use. Do they seem negative or positive? Are they dwelling on past or future issues/project/problems? Are they chatty or need to be coaxed in conversation? Are they vain, aggressive, shy?
3- Keep them in the NOW. The individual is talking to ME. So I keep them focused on ME, until I decided I have all the info I need to determine which way to go. If I’m chatting up a woman I keep her mind on pleasurable experiences in her past then reference near future ones where I inject myself into the equation (escalation anyone?). It can be a subtle transition or very direct depending on what she gives you to work with. Remember my line about, “you’re gonna end up pregnant”? If it’s an adversary, I stroke the ego and slowly work my way to him telling me the subject I REALLY want to know about.