My ReplyPosted: July 17, 2012 | |
As you’re well aware now, I’ve come under fire from a “Catholic” female blogger for my being unable to find a “nice women”. According to her (despite her pointing out my “decent guy” status) I’m not finding “nice women” because I’m spending some of my free time in a strip club. This hamster is Kraken-esque.
WOW. Seriously, fucking WOW. Now I’m on pins and needles waiting for DJ Lynn to chime in (she’s a DJ at said club whom I affectionately refer to as “Mom”).
Here’s my reply to her post on her site:
Well well well….
What I find funny is that the few women I DO see as marriage material think I’m too nice. Don’t pretend to know me based on my blog… You have no idea. Strip clubs. Lol. I’m not there looking for a partner, I have friends that work there. Before you start judging me….remember the “glass houses” idiom. But I am flattered to have a post dedicated to me. It’s nice to know I can move someone so much as to dedicate an entire post to my bullshit. Thanks Dear.
She has since been placed in moderation after telling ST I wasn’t worth talking with. Sorry, but that moves this beyond civility. I NEVER went after this “woman” on ST’s blog, I simply pointed out that she is the very reason there’s a MGTOW movement. SHE is the very embodiment of what’s driving men FROM marriage. Instead of her listening to men and legitimate complaints we have on the current state of the SMP, she just chooses to vilify men. Ok. She has every right to her opinion. And THIS is why I’m happy I have a relatively small blog: I can police it easily.
Rather than giving this blogger a forum for her diatribe, I’ll simply ignore her. She can have this discussion within her own blog or via her email. Simple as that. I feel no need to justify my site or my behavior. I fully understand that some women will NEVER see eye to eye on this matter, and most of the male bloggers ignore women like her for this very reason-
There’s no “discussion” with women like this. Please recall the “Nuking the 30 year old Hamster at my Local” post. It’s actually laughable how worked up some women get over this. Because honestly….if you disagree with me. FINE. You know exactly what this blog is about, its subject matter, and my open personality. If you choose to disagree, that’s fine. But I WILL NOT give you an open forum to “discuss” when you implicitly state I’m “unworthy” of discussing this matter. Because if that’s truly how you feel-
WHY ARE YOU STILL COMMENTING AFTER I SPECIFICALLY TELL YOU AREN’T WELCOME HERE AND PUT YOUR COMMENTS IN MODERATION?
I’ll tell you why. Typical western, white, attention whore. Therefore, the best way to deal with such women (who have ZERO real interest in your POV and observations) is to not give her attention. It’s that simple. I’ve bent over backwards to be polite towards women, even in the face of recognizing their faults. Are men in general perfect….HELL NO!!!! A big part of this blog is trying to teach men to be better men. As I’ve said before: it’s easy to be bitter, and difficult to “man up” and be a better man.
To sum this up. I won’t find a “good girl” because I spend maybe, 25% of my free time in a seedy strip club. Lol. Yeah. “Holier than thou much”. Funny that I spend the following 2-3 hours AFTER leaving said club at my local visiting with other that I consider my friends: single moms, waitstaff, cooks, bartenders, management, etc. But let’s call a spade a spade, that’s not dramatic/controversial enough to point out.
And if I NEVER find my future ex-wife……that’s ok. God’s will be done.
p.s.- she’s since emailed me so I’m assuming (and hoping) she’s gotten the message that I disagree with her and there’s really no point in her continuing. The point of the whole discussion went off the rails LONG ago. I simply want to point out to my female readers what we men are dealing with from a self-described “good woman”. The MGTOW movement is simply based on men walking away from marriage all together. Most of us don’t “hate” women, but the system is so stacked against us, women are so entitled now…that marriage is as appealing to us as teabagging a wood-chipper. Men didn’t create that outcome. WOMEN DID. You ladies made this mess and now you’re are learning that a LOT of men are disinterested when you bat your eyes at us, or we take no interest in you in general. By and large, you’re screwing it up for the actual “good girls”; because now I (we) don’t even care if i run into one.
Thank you CD for proving my point. Have a nice day. Ok, can we get back to chicks and guns now?
Oh, and I appreciate all the support in this matter guys. So….for the record, i’ve drawn the ire of and Aussie escort, now I’ve done so with a Catholic “good girl”. Lol. I LOVE how these women choose one of the safest male blogs to rally against.