You’re Fourth….Posted: August 4, 2012
I was watching Patrice O’Neal’s first HBO stand up gig. It was 2005. I discovered Patrice via Opie and Anthony back in 1999-2000. What I liked about him was his relationship philosophies. This was WAAAAAAAAAAY before I even could fathom red-pill knowledge. Patrice WAS a red-pill. Had I never found Patrice, I’d probably still be pining over Beth. And as I’ve posted before I crossed paths with her 4 times over an 8 year stretch. It was Patrice’s philosophy of “you’re the fourth most important thing in my life” and Beth’s propensity to sully my #1-3 that eventually made me sever ties with her altogether.
Patrice asked the audience (read: the Ladies in the audience)-
“Let’s say you were in a horrific accident and in order to save you, they had to remove your vagina. What would you then have to offer your man? I’ll wait.” The audience laughed at first and over a 15-20 second period he got 2 responses. Those being: oral and anal.
Read it again, oral and anal.
Patrice mentioned these 2 options and again paused. “You see, you ladies have relegated yourselves to simply holes. Notice not one woman said, ‘learn to play Xbox, get good at chess, learn piano, and learn massage therapy.’ Then he (and the crowd) erupted into laughter.
Back in Japan, I was ready to break up with Nancy. I used to joke with her about her “bringing nothing to the table besides sex” in our relationship. Eventually, I realized how true that was. I withdrew from the relationship into the third month of our dating. By the time were about to hit home port, I was completely avoiding her. Everyone working with me KNEW I wasn’t happy with the relationship. Well, I had learned that one of my co-workers (one of the ladies who I “honk honked het titty meat”), pulled the gf aside and asked about our relationship. When my lovely co-worker hinted that I MIGHT not be all that please with the dynamic the gf said (I SWEAR t God), “why wouldn’t he be happy, he’s getting laid.”
Yeah. Read it again. I’m writing this because there are A LOT of women that truly believe the core of a man’s happiness lies in his “getting the pussy.” Really? That’s like saying my car is important to me because it has 4 tires. SMH. Anytime a woman tries to use sex as leverage as to her “contribution” I always negate it with “Well, I give you cumsies too don’t I? Do you see me make asking for credit?” This is why I posted in “natural game” it’s most important point. If I have a gf she’s the FOURTH most important thing in my life, and I STICK TO THAT. Why you ask….
It’s pure ANTI-PEDESTALIZATION. This equals MAJOR tingles on her end. It exemplifies assertive yet dominant leadership that most (read- good eggs) women find irresistible.
I’ll try and find a clip of Patrice doing this bit.
[edit- i guess i should add some closure as to what ended up going down with the ex gf. i was living in Spain, she was in Japan- she was tipsy and drunk dialed me and admitted “wishing she’d have become Missus504.” *sigh*what i told her STUNNED her. i knew she wouldn’t get it if i told her, so i presented her with a little question.
“Sweetie, is you mom a great wife?” and she quickly answered that she was. i asked her WHAT made her such a great wife and she fired off a list of things she never did in the almost year long relationship we had where i broke up with her then gave her a second chance. a few seconds into her “list” she stopped. and uttered, “oh my God.”
yeah. after that conversation (she cried btw) she quickly went from something “casual” with her bf to being in a serious relationhip and eventually married that man and now she’s a mom. and i’ve NEVER said a bad thing about her. just wasn’t meant to be.]