The Padawan is now a JediPosted: August 9, 2012
As you guys may recall, I have a Padawan. The Padawan is a young lady in college who reads the blogs. She emailed me for advice and admitting to hating watch guys run game on girls. I told her that’s not uncommon for women to dislike it and she hits me with this-
“No, I hate watching guys run game on girls because they never run it on me, and It makes me feel ugly.”
Cue the sound of my heart shattering. You HAVE to respect such raw honesty. I told myself I was going to help this young lady be more visible on men’s radar. I asked her to send me a picture so I could see what I was dealing with. The Padawan had a TON of potential, but….she wasn’t utilizing the weaponry God had given her. I asked her, “Ok sweetie, I’m a man….what’s the first thing I notice when I see you.” Well, she does read the blogs she answered immediately, “Face, hair, boobs, and butt.” See, she IS a smart girl. So I told her she needed to accentuate those 4 things. I sent her pic to 5 of the ladies I talk with for them to give her tips on improving her outer appearance. I went to work on her inner game. This started back in December of last year.
Over the next few weeks I’d chat with the Padawan on gchat and give her advice. Eventually, I heard from her less and less. I finally got an email from her and she’s come full circle. She sent a recent picture and WOW. She has done a 180. I showed a co-worker the pic she sent and he commented, “Damn….who’s that? She’s hot.” When I explained her back story he nodded, “Good job Son.” I should point out that she’s not really what I’m into in a woman- I’d TOTALLY date her. Lol. This is the email I got.
“ Hi Danny,
Just to let you know that I’m still around and kickin’. I went up north for a bit and got really busy…..
I’m getting my skydiving license – thought that might bring you military types a smile, me pretending like I’m all badass and stuff. My instructor kind of looks like you, which is why I was reminded.
Hope life is going well for you!
I responded and she sent me this. I asked if I had helped her.
“I was at a wedding recently… this is what I wore.
I flirt-texted the infantryman. I think he likes me. And if not, well… you’ve taught me outcome independence. Also I don’t have to see him ever again if it doesn’t work.”
My girl. Wish I could share her pic, but I’m sure you understand that I can’t. but I did ask her to comment. Hopefully she honor us. stay up.