Can’t We all Just Get AlongPosted: September 2, 2012 | |
Ok. I’m asking the women that read this site to leave for a spell. The locker room is closed, sealed, and welded shut. GOT IT!!!! Good.
I stumbled upon the Sphere the way I think a lot of guys do. Some feminist site that was dumb enough to link Roissy , I went to his site and spent the next 7-8 hours of a night shift fascinated and relieved. FINALLY, someone telling the truth. I was already red-pill minded but reading it reinforced it I way that was profound. From there it ballooned to the other sites. Finally I became a fixture on “Becoming Alpha” around March 2003. After a few months of posting, I became friends with Yohami and Rivelino. Eventually I found my way to Badger’s site, then Privateman . The first 3 bloggers finally talked me into starting a blog. Then I met and started talk with Tia (and GOD KNOWS I catch shit for that) and Athol .Well, I was commenting openly so I decided to post openly. The last thing I really wanted to do was be a “game” blog. God knows we have enough of those. I also didn’t want to host an MRA site. I’m no PUA, and I’m not necessarily an MRA guy. But I believe both sides have solid merits in their perspectives. I’ve been to most of the sites and there’s only one thing that bothers me about the Sphere.
Could we please stop the fucking bickering on the sites?
While I don’t necessarily agree with the opinions of some of the bloggers, I absolutely respect their opinion. In the end, we all have one thing in common: we recognize the disarray and plights men have in our society. We recognize how skewed the world has become towards men. And we ultimately want men to take the red pill and be more successful in life in general. There’s no saving everyone, but for one know what I get an email (and I usually reply to EVERY email) where a guy is needing some advice and I get a follow up-email where the guy had a great outcome from talking with me. Hell i helped a guy lose his virginity. When I get an email asking advice from a woman I typically get the same opening sentence, “I really need a man’s perspective on something but I’m too scared to ask on the other sites.” We definitely have some red-pill women out there. And to me that’s promising.
I’d really like to see more solidarity and less division among the blogs and commenters. Is that too much to ask? I hope not. To me, the best thing about the blogs is that everyone has their own unique voice. If you go to Dal’s site, you know exactly what you’re going to get, same goes for SpearHead, Roissy, Keoni, Badger, Mentu. I guess in a sense this is more towards the reader’s. Why a man would go to a site where the opinions are pretty consistent and bitch and moan. I’m sick of the “game is bullshit” no “game is legit”, “MGTOW is a cop out”, “PUA’s are the problem, no MRA’s are the problem”. The stupid “alpha and beta” interpretations. You know what the REAL problem is-
Feminists brainwashing women AND men.
Can we all agree with that? It’s no new discussion that the state of affairs for men is pretty bleak. Don’t you think we can get more accomplished by NOT being at each other’s throats? Fortunately, that isn’t a problem on my site. I’m under the radar enough to where I can police my site fairly well. But I stay away from most of the other sites because it just gets to a point sometimes where it feels like you’re back in high school. If you’re an MRA guy WHY the fuck would you go to Roissy’s site and bitch and moan. If you’re a Game guy why would you get on and MRA site and shit talk about how game is the key. Every guy has to find their own path, and whatever works for them: God bless. Seriously. I’d LOVE to see the Sphere as a Castle, not a house of cards. I think we’ll get MUCH more accomplished if some of us agreed to disagree and remember we have a bigger problems to address rather than compare dick sizes. Seriously, you know what my sick fun is? Overhearing a bunch of divorced soccer mom’s talking shit about men and launching into a full-on Paul Elam MRA “game” tirade. When they find out I’m 38, never married, and have no kids and I have ZERO intention of getting married because it’s so easy to get their over-entitled princess daughters into to bed, that I’ll never get married because of the family court system, how marriage is antiquated and pointless since it’s easy to access sex, how as I age my SMV goes up and theirs goes down. Then I tell them how more and more men are realizing this. I LOVE watching their faces either turn to depressed realization or absolute fury. I.FUCKING.LOVE.IT.
Look I know it’s a pretty lofty expectation on my part to (Heaven Forbid) think there be a tad more unity within the Sphere. But we can all dream right? And from here out, any more “game is worthless” comments run the risk of moderation. I think our community is important and one more that I wants to see it thrive. Besides, I’m made some pretty good friends in the Sphere. And please, stop asking for deet’s on the behind the scenes of the gendersphere and it’s writer’s (male or female), I’ve been given a privilege that I will NEVER betray.
Thanks for stopping by the Trailer Park. As you were.