Into the Locker Room: Male AggressionPosted: September 5, 2012 | |
i wanted to kick the girls out of the locker room, but then realized i needed their opinion on this one.
The Stir had a post about the shooting in Aroura that a friend of mine responded to. then there was a nice article at The Spearhead that i read and wanted to discuss because, as some of you may know…..i’m one of the blog dickbag fight jerks of the blogsphere. i have ZERO problem taking things to the physical plane.
last night’s post prompted me to post this, i’ve had it sitting in “drafts” for a while, so now…after last night, i’ve decided to take this one on.
i have a protective streak a mile wide. i have ZERO doubt that i’d protect the women in my flock; be them family or SO. but that’s me. i’ve got PTSD and a propensity to fight, so i know how i’d PROBABLY react.
but most men today aren’t me. well, the same website that published this article, routinely TRASHES men for being too aggressive (and trashes men in general truth be told). so when i read the article that TRASHES men for running away from danger, i immediately had my BS meter go off. then the Spearhead published the article they did and i HAD to post the 2 articles. especially after my post about bringing a woman into a forest.
it pisses me off how men are cowed and have their aggressive sides tied down, but in cases when we NEED to be aggressive, when we’re EXPECTED to. fuck you women. FUCK.YOU.
you want me to be a teddy bear and be a nice pretty little lamb….but then be a wolf when the situation calls for it. SORRY girls, it doesn’t work that way. you want a man that will keep you safe, he’s RAISED that way. you want a sheep, well……he’s probably being raised now. i live in the south and out here guys are guys. if we have a dispute….we take it outside and handle it. after it’s over, we have a beer and forget it.
out here MEN are the gate-keepers of the physical. WE FIGHT, if we need to. women…..DON’T. they nurture. it’s a very basic and symbiotic state. when my baby sis had an issue in her marriage, my mom made a HUGE effort to tell the FB fam NOT to mention the issue because if i got wind go it, i’d have driven to NO first chance i got and would have beat the fuck out of my brother-in-law. and as my mom explained to me, “i didn’t want my son in jail.” she know’s me. but at the same time.
she also know’s that i WILL go out of my way to keep her safe. i mean, she raised me that way. lol.
so i ask, do you ladies want a wolf, or a cow? seriously. i KNOW what my ex’s would say. but i don’t know what you’d say. how do YOU feel about male aggression in regards to protecting his people?