Krav You Very Much and Game without GamePosted: September 5, 2012 | |
i’ve written before about learning krav. all the FMF (Marine Hm’s) i work with know it. they’re actually better at it than i am. well one of our civilians started taking krav a few months ago. since his son is taking tae kwon do at a dojo that teaches krav he got 5 free lessons. he signed up after the second lesson. lol.
i’ve spent the last year on nights so i never really saw him. well. before, he was jumpy, always hyper…cool guy. seriously. i saw him for the first time in AGES this afternoon. we’re talking a whole.new.guy.
now he’s laid back, his movements are deliberate. he’s not jumpy, he’s calm, he moved MUCH slower. i know EXACTLY why he’s changed. i asked him how the krav was going and he’s rocking it. his last test was fending off 3 men with knives- he only go slashed once across the arm. i told him, “if/when you feel there might be a threat……you REALLY practice restraint to NOT fight.- right?” he nodded and said that he’s MUCH more aware of his surroundings now, and he’s ALWAYS keeping abreast of his surroundings. i wasn’t surprised.
i’m the EXACT.SAME.WAY.
about 2 weeks ago So-So went to the ER. i called her at work to ask her a question and i learned she was being seen. i called her and she asked me to give her a ride home. i rushed to the ER and she looked pretty rough. now So-So is like a sister to me. so let’s get that straight, but she FUCKING BEAUTIFUL. serious. when they discharged her i shelled her to the ER and it was very apparent i was concerned for her. “come on sweetie, let’s get your meds.” when we came back to the ER i told her, “ok baby, let’s get you to the car. i ended up following her home, walked her to her door, gave her a hug, and left.
fast forward to the next day, i’m at work and my boy Anfernee pulls me aside, “dude, one of the ER nurses asked me if you and So were dating. i told him ‘no, they’re just friends’ “. the nurse mentioned me calling her “baby”. BWAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! my boy laughed and told him that that’s just me and how i talk to women.
well, i ended up in the ER to drop off a patient i had just scanned. a nurse that was sitting next to one of the ER HM’s i was talking to looks at me and asked, “are you dating anyone in the hospital?” *sigh* i told him no and he asked if it were a secret thing. ok, let’s play this little game. i motioned that i was “just fucking her” and he said, “OOOOOH. ok. ok. gotcha.”
i looked at him, shook my head and told him, “dude, seriously? NO, she’s like my sister.” then he said the way i interacted with her gave the impression that she and i were a couple. i simply told him that knowing how to treat/talk to a woman often leads to guy’s that AREN’T good at it to thinking there’s something going on when there isn’t.
i actually thought about continuing with the charade, but i don’t wanna sully So-So’s rep. she’s DEF not a slut. when i told So-So about what went down she laughed and rolled her eyes. one of the guy i teach game to in the ER (he’s got some pretty tight game for a younger cat) and he laughed about it. he KNOWS my relationship with So-So. then he hit me with, “you know you have mad game when people think you’re banging a girl just by how you talk to her.” lol. say word. i though that was funny, but there’s a good bit of truth to it as well.
i’m going hunting this weekend. wild boar, deer, turkey’s. guess who’s excited?