The New Padawan- Lady RedPosted: September 11, 2012
i received an email from a 20 yo college student. her dliema- she wants to lose her virginity, but DOES NOT want to jump on the carousel. i spoke with this young lady for a while on the phone and i can tell you……she’s a good egg. i’d TOTALLY date this woman. she’s a hard 7- redhead, VERY CUTE. after talking to her, my advice was to have a couple of drinks and do the deed with a friend. i’m asking Tia, Athol, Stingray, Jacquie, and Aoefe to chime in.
of course you reader’s are also welcome to offer advice. but i wish to reiterate my policy, any bashing of this girl will be put into moderation. so let me introduce…….Lady Red.
“I recently did a summer study abroad with some other university students from my school.
It was an awesome experience and we all got to be pretty close. I got to be really good friends with one of the
guys on the trip. From the start he tried to get physically close to me (breaking the touch barrier, etc.).
This guy is very involved in partying – at school he’s in a top fraternity, is always drinking, and I’m assuming
he gets a lot of hot girls (both from his personality and by virtue of being in a top frat) – even though he’s not the
best looking guy in the world.
We spent tons of one-on-one time together – getting food, helping him buy souvenirs for friends and family,
hanging out on the beach, dancing at salsa classes,etc. It was very obvious that he preferred hanging out with
me than with any other group member (guys and girls).
Though this trip was pretty long and we got to be really close, nothing happened between us on the trip. Fast-forward
to the start of this semester, we met up at a couple of parties and hung out a lot. Eventually we hooked up at one of his
frat parties (not sex) – let me just say that I don’t hook up a lot, and I’ve only done more than making out
with one other guy – he knew all of this already.
At this point, I’m really excited about what happened and I’m hoping for a repeat the next time I see him. I meet him again
a few days later at his frat and he’s super distant. I don’t know what happened! All of a sudden he was
clearly completely uninterested and definitely didn’t want to pick up where we left off. He hardly touched me (in a friendly way) at all, and we didn’t do anything – not even a kiss! I guess I’m just wondering why he’s so uninterested after months of seeming
interested in me and getting really close to me.”
again….any attacks against this girl will be nuked. GOT IT. she’s a decent girl, and one worthy of the Sphere wisdom. she’s happily taken the red pill.