ITLR- LJBFPosted: November 19, 2012 | |
we’ve all heard it before. well, if you’re honest you have. i’ve even been successful at turning LJBF into, “fuck me harder Danny.” how did i do it? glad you asked.
you got her number, flirted, got IOI’s, negged, teased, even took her out. then…..the moment of truth, you go in for a kiss, and you get a cheek.
“i had a really great time, but i just don’t think i feel that way about you. LJBF.”
you’re perplexed, maybe even angry. NOT HER TYPE. w.t.f? my friend, i won’t even go into any type of analysis of WHY she’d tell you that. to be honest, it doesn’t matter. all that matters is YOUR handling it. my go to reply is this.
“sorry, but i have enough friends. we’re obviously looking for totally different things. i’m looking for a romantic partner, and you’re looking for a “friend” to use for free lunches. THANKS , but no thanks. enjoy the rest of evening/day.”
this response is basically an alpha hail Mary. on TWO occasions, as i walked away, i was told to wait. i didn’t. when i got home i had a voice mail informing me we should have another date. i simply played like i wasn’t interested. EVENTUALLY, i accepted a date SHE had to pay for. now, i will say there was a complete 180 in the girls behavior. SHE would initiate PDA. when it was kissy face time she didn’t hesitate. i close closed a week later. i used this tactic on another woman. remember, the hamster wants what it can’t have.
another good one, is David DeAngelo’s line. “cool, we’re gonna be BEST friends, and you’re going to introduce me to all your single friends.”
but honestly. i have/want very few friends. i’m cool with a few VERY attractive women and we’re all aware of WHY. lol. so i would typically rather go with the first tactic. i mean the way i see it.
if i’m getting shot down, i’m going kamikaze on the ship. lol.
as an aside, is it bad that i’m watching “red dawn” and now i wanna tear up some British ass in AC3? lol