INCOMING!!!!!!Posted: December 6, 2012
Ok, this one has been sitting in the drafts for a minute. But it came up again watching a Patrice O’neal special and having it brought up with a female friend. I asked her if her and her dude “went raw” and she admitted they did (she’s on birth control). I already know that that’s something pretty special for a woman. It’s not something she let’s many guys do. My last 3 girlfriends went to the “I hate condoms” route pretty quick. After the tests and assurance of BC, we went at it. Honestly, I HATE condoms, when I ONS or have sex outside commitment, I bag up. PERIOD.
I finally asked about what she liked about me firing a round off inside her and the best explanation I got was, “it’s just so warm.”
Apparently intimacy can be replaced by putting on a snuggie and having a cup of hot tea. Thanks baby-cakes, I REALLY feel special now. Look, I get the biology: semen contains high levels of testosterone which is absorbed by the woman and releases a pleasurable, calming sensation. I get it. And I realize it’s a very powerful bonding sensation for a couple. It’s intimacy at its highest level. But I’m not a woman. There’s just something about it that feels good, but there isn’t the same connection to it that I know women have. Whether I blast inside her or make a mess on her stomach/back is irrelevant to me.
I realize you ladies may be blushing but I’m serious about this. I’m assuming the women to chime in will most likely be the married ladies as they have a deep connection to their partners. But I’ve ALWAYS wondered about it from a female perspective. I do notice a gf get’s very relaxed and seem to hae this “aaaaaah” wash over them for the next few hours. “what, you’re going out for a bit to have a few beers with john…..um-kay.”
So ladies, care to share? WHAT exactly about this is so special to you? Don’t be shy.