Have a GrenadePosted: December 17, 2012 | |
Read an article recently that had a link to a Jezebel “Fuck MRA’s” article. Which I must admit was WAY more vitriolic than any MRA/MGTOW post I’ve ever read. This has always amused me about ardent feminists. I gave up caring a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG time ago what women think about my decision to not get married. Young girls don’t care. “Oh, yeah, that’s cool. If it works for you.”
Yet, when I mention this to a woman in her 30’s or a single mom; I get a VERY different response. They are either quick to vilify me, or they seem completely crushed after I explain the reasons for my avoiding marriage. I don’t have anything against women. I LOVE women. But I have completely given up on rationalizing my decision to a feminist. I’ll let them drone on and on and on before I respond with, “Ok.” Then I simply quit talking to her.
Which doesn’t really defuse the woman if you MIGHT have thought it would. Lol. What feminists have failed to realize is the MRA/MGTOW camp really doesn’t care what ANYONE thinks of their decision. Most women listen to my POV when it comes to marriage, and YES there are a certain number of men that do have an agenda towards women. HOWEVER, these men have usually had their lives practically devastated in divorce. Lost jobs, children, and their livelihood. And now, a number of men (read- yours truly), have seen enough and are just tapping out.
Add to the equation I was MUCH more concerned with a relationship when I was younger. Now, as an almost 40 year old man, I could care less. All I care about now is trying to teach guys how my dumb ass got to be decent to talking to women. Because guess what?
MOST MEN STILL WANT TO BE IN RELATIONSHIPS!!!!
But sadly, they’re still recovering from the blue pill and maybe if they see a short, pale, bald douche like me can get a girl tingling- they can too. It’s all mindset. I swear, I once finished up a sesh with the gf and I walked back into the bedroom (I was nakie, and girls a solid 8) and I walked past a mirror, looked at it, looked at her laying in bed, looked at myself in the mirror, looked at her and said, “Seriously….how do you fuck me.” Then I made the disgusted noise as I looked at myself naked in the mirror. I mean, I’m not a girl, but I can only assume seeing me naked is like passing a 4 car pile-up. You don’t WANT to look, but you HAVE to. Then once you look you can’t look away. Amirite?
Since I’ve long since gotten off topic I just wanted to point out that while we may be vilified, scorned, and marginalized for opting out of marriage, we don’t care. And when you have game, you AREN’T starved for female attention. You basically have as little or as much as you care to, WINSAUCE.
The best analogy I’ve ever heard regarding marriage was telling a woman she’s presented with a box of 50 grenades. Half are live, and the rest are duds. Pick a grenade and pull the pin. You’ll either explode or you won’t. OR…..don’t pick any. That’s marriage for a man today. Is it harsh, yes, but it’s true….I’ve watched it happen. Not I said Dan.