Betas ask Alphas DO- ReduxPosted: January 16, 2013
back in spain, i overheard one of the guys talking abut taking his first trip with his wife in europe. he was 22, married 1 year. he told his wife to pick any place she wanted to go, and they’d go there for their first vacay in europe. of course….wifey couldn’t decide. this is where i stepped in.
“big mistake dude. NEVER ask her to choose. your best bet is to find out what interests her and plan that trip, then DON’T tell her about it. just tell her to pack her shit and what type of clothes she’ll need. DO NOT tell her where you are going until you get to the terminal.”
women LOVE a man with a plan. had a girl fly in from the states to visit me in spain, and i booked a weekend paris getaway. i NEVER told her about it until thursday (we flew out friday morning) afternoon. she went apeshit wanting to know where we were going. expect that, hold the frame. you might say it’s beta to take a woman to paris, but i wanted to go- and hell, she flew to spain to fuck me. if you fed-ex the pussy, i WILL reward you. plus….who the fuck DOESN’T want to spend a weekend in paris. LOVE the place, i’m from new orleans for God’s sake.
take initiative and be bold, women eat that shit up. it’s confidence and it’s assertive. NO WOMAN can resist that. case in point.
one morning me and the gf were kicking back and gf mentioned something about wanting popeye’s for lunch. something inside me snapped and questioned her about her want for fried chicken. she simply stated she felt like fried chicken.
“go get dressed, we’re taking a little drive.”
of course she wanted to know where, but i just told her to get dressed so we could leave. the drive to our destination was just under 2 hours. we’d be there around 12:00. the drive was a scenic country route along the backroads of rural mississippi. VERY beautiful, peaceful, woodsy drive. the gf (being from LA) wasn’t used to that. she LOVED the scenery.
the route was a shortcut i took to my maw-maw’s place in monroe, la. our destination was a gas station that served pressure cooked fried chicken that was DAMN good. as we pulled in she asked what was there and i simply told her to come with. we walked inside and i ordered 2 3 pieces and TOLD her to pick out something to drink whilst fetching me a diet coke. she happily grabbed our beverages.
we noshed on home-made fried chicken WAAAAAAAAY out of the way, and laughed and made jokes. she LOVED the trip. i’m still in contact with said girl and to this day she says it’s the best date she’s ever been on. AND it cost me VERY little. anyone wanna guess if i got a BJ on the drive back? huh, anyone…yes, no, maybe?
women CANNOT resist a man with a plan, a spontaneous, “up for whatever” man. so, don’t ASK her what she wants to do, DO what you want to do, and include her. just- understand her likes and desires, and use it to plan something unexpected that you know she’ll love.
class dismissed. lol.