Deconstructing the HamsterPosted: March 6, 2013
femininity is a glorious thing. real men can’t resist it. as a man, i see femininity as: graceful, mysterious, poised, elegant, and beautiful. to me these are the core qualities of a good woman. i’ve know MANY women- some friends, some lovers. and i can ALWAYS tell when a girl has it for a guy.
all the above qualities go out the window. she becomes slightly goofy.
i have watched the most beautiful women turn into rambling, discombobulated dorks in the presence of a man they’re attracted to. the normally soft spoken, demure, charming girl transforms in an instant. i wing GREAT for said girls, because often the guy is clueless that the woman in my company likes him. as an INTJ i know and can read people like a champ. watching a clueless guy in the presence of a woman who’s attracted and TRYING to be accommodating and giving IOI’s and dude doesn’t get it.
once, i was having lunch with a friend from the ship and a guy she knew approached our table to say hi to us. my friend was smiling and laughing at damn near everything he said, and i KNEW right away she liked dude. after him NOT escalating and making small talk for close to 5 minutes i finally jumped in-
“dude, you really don’t know that much about women do you?” he kinda looked at me blankly and said, he thought he understood women fairly well. i took his phone and said, “really, let me have this.” and i pulled up the keypad and punched in her number. “here dude, give her a call sometime. k. and go get yourself a clue while you’re at it.” was my lady-friend embarrassed, YES. but after he left (and she slapped my arm- another sign she liked him…..i embarrassed dude as well). i explained that had i not done what i did, he was NEVER going to ask for her number.
being a somewhat red-pill woman she replied back, “well, his loss. not my fault if he has no balls.” good point, and while he did call her, it never really panned out. anyone wanna guess why based on what i provided in the story?
the ball buster female.
AFTER he shows some balls and escalates and kiss closes. notice the difference in her demeanor as she walks away. classic. start watching at the 45 second mark and watch up to the 1:55 mark.
i have a brief field report as well.
i stopped at dunking to get a sammich and a VERY cute girl was working the counter and took my order. i asked her when she started working there and she said she had just started. i replied that i need to stop in more often now and she smiled and i could tell she was blushing. i slyly backpedaled and told her i didn’t mean to make her uncomfortable but i had to pojt out she was quite a cute girl. then i asks-
“can you do me a favor?”
she replied of course and i told her to tell her BF how lucky he is ( i ALWAYS use this to flush out if she’s single or not- i call it “flanking”). she mentioned that she didn’t have a bf, so i told her i didn’t believe her. that she was too cute to be single. again she smiled and bit her lip, and preened a little so i grabbed my phone, punched in “1” on the key pad, handed her my phone and said, “we need to kick it sometime in the near future.” she punched in her number and i called her.
before i drove home, i texted her, “i’m gonna say you messed up my order so i can come back and see you.” she replied with an “lol, don’t get me fired, i just started.”
again. beta’s ask, alphas DO. i didn’t ask for her number i gave her my phone and she simply complied with an assertive, confidant man. as PrivateMan says, “the masculine attracts the feminine.” also, check out his new endeavor- Red Pill Dating