Skateboarding, Slam Dancing, Chasing GirlsPosted: March 13, 2013
since last night was kind of a throw-away post. here’s a fresh one-
when i was a little asshole in my younger years (read- junior high and high school) i was an avid skateboarder. i was never great but i was decent and i had fun. i also noticed the girls LOVED little asshole guys that had a “i don’t give a fuck” attitude. especially the “good girls”. look- i’m not bragging about those days. i fully admit i was a fucking selfish dick. i already explained how my bestie taught me asshole game to get laid. and i like to keep pointing it out as a warning to parents of daughters.
the only punk show i went to as a kid was amazing. i ended up slam dancing and well…..i got punched pretty hard (kinda happens). i fell to the ground and was quickly picked up and i continued going along with the pit for a few more minutes. now…i’m not a big guy, well back then…..i was TINY. i left the pit and went to grab some water. what struck me as odd were all the girls there. while i was sipping my water, some cute girl came up to me and asked me if i was ok. i just laughed and said of course.
next thing you know, we’re making out.
whenever we sessioned the ramp by my boys place, there were always 2-3 girls milling about watching us skate. i never understood WHY they were there. it was basically a guy only environment. we rough housed, did questionable tricks (def could get seriously hurt if you fuck up), and made fun of each other.
now……even as a seasoned red-pill man i wonder what’s the allure exactly. is it the alpha hierarchy on display (and trust me….it’s VERY clear there is a pecking order in the tribe), is it the booooiz being boys, is there some odd fascination women have with “daredevil” guys? hmmmmm. i did alright with girls back then. and i def learned how women are drawn to “assholes”. but the “rough-housing” crap- no clue. honestly, i’ve never really understood the tingles women get from men fighting and rough-housing. even now, the few female friends i have get all smootheringly momish and coddling when they learn i got into a fight or got injured doing something “manly” (not that it happens often). lol.
this song is kinda subtle in it’s message. i used to ALWAYS play it, and never had a girl not comment on it in a manner that disqualified me.
now it’s time to throw myself under the bus.
sadly, as i’m sure you’ve all learned- SSM’s nuked her site. that really sucks. the sphere is a lesser place without her. i commented on her site irregularly, but spoke to her more in email land. she’s the real deal and i hope she comes back soon. if not, and you’re reading this…be well SSM, this place will suck w/o you. i hope i hear from you soon.