Assertiveness=Wetness

Early post tonight since i have to be at inspection tomorrow. enjoy.

the ex was in san deezy and we ended up at a violent femmes concert at the horse track. since we’re both military we got in free *SCHWEET!!!!* the show was great, but the area (a balcony) we were in was getting crowded. eventually 2 (very drunk) girls settled next to us.

now couple concert 101: the ex was standing against the rail and i formed a little barricade around her by placing my arms at her sides and holding the rails about 1 foot to her sides. see, i’m a gentleman. now, my job is crowd control. i give her a safe perimeter; she leans to the side so i can view the show. it’s a win win. well as the shown went on more people filed in and it was harder to keep up the perimeter (i’m only 5’4″ remember) so i moved us to a better vantage point.

then it happened.

2 VERY drunk girls stumbled to our area and one was screaming into her cell phone. we could barely hear the show. my blood was fucking boiling. finally i had had enough. i tapped girl on her shoulder and said sternly, “i’m trying to watch a concert with my girl, and i can’t because you’re fucking yelling into yer damn phone. if you need to talk, move over there.” and i pointed to an area about 6 feet away. girl looked at me sort of stunned and walked away.

my girl was looking at me with a glazed over look of amazement. the show only lasted another 30 minutes and of course they closed with “add it up” and “blister in the sun”. i had us leave (notice- taking the lead) a few minutes before the encore to avoid the traffic and as we drove back to my apartment she was gushing over how much fun she had and how turned on she got watching me telling that girl to fuck off.

she showed her gratitude back at the canton. lol.

you see, ballsy and assertive makes a woman weak in the knees. if it were a dude, i’d have done it different; but i was dealing with a girl so i had to be a tad more “subtle”. regardless, taking control of the frame and the dynamic makes a woman tingle like there’s no other man on the planet. she made a comment on how hot it was that i told that girl to move so “we” could enjoy the show. i wasn’t trying to impress her, i was just keeping my territory MINE.

that’s just what an alpha does.

stay up.

and just for good measure. a GREAT Alpha song i used to love skating to.

as an add on, i want to thank vivalamanosphere for the linkage and over all scene promotion. bless you Brother.


13 Comments on “Assertiveness=Wetness”

  1. Sis says:

    First time I heard Blister in the Sun was at church camp as a kid, I thought it was so cool and sang it all the time, didn’t have a clue what it was about.

  2. High Hard One says:

    all right, I’ll bite. what would you have said to a 6′ 2″ 250 LB dude?

  3. darlingdoll says:

    Love the VF! “You see, ballsy and assertive makes a woman weak in the knees.” ~you are so very correct sir 😉

  4. “i tapped girl on her shoulder and said sternly, “i’m trying to watch a concert with my girl, and i can’t because you’re fucking yelling into yer damn phone. if you need to talk, move over there.””

    And then she was gone, daddy, gone…

  5. Ton says:

    The upside to having no neck is I rarely have to be assertive like this in social settings, the down side is… there is no downside.

    Someone asked what if it was a large man,. it’s rarely men and when it is, it’s almost never a large man. But the firm approach works well with men who are experienced with causal social violence. It gets drawn out when it’s a wannabe. little boys get punched in the face for being assholes and learn how to read these things. Little girls do not, so they grow up without social boundaries.

    I live in a town full of 20 year old paratroopers and rarely deal with things like Danny posted. 70 miles up the road is a college town where they are a common occurrence.

  6. Ruxman says:

    You used to be a skateboarder Danny?


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