Assertiveness=WetnessPosted: March 26, 2013 | |
Early post tonight since i have to be at inspection tomorrow. enjoy.
the ex was in san deezy and we ended up at a violent femmes concert at the horse track. since we’re both military we got in free *SCHWEET!!!!* the show was great, but the area (a balcony) we were in was getting crowded. eventually 2 (very drunk) girls settled next to us.
now couple concert 101: the ex was standing against the rail and i formed a little barricade around her by placing my arms at her sides and holding the rails about 1 foot to her sides. see, i’m a gentleman. now, my job is crowd control. i give her a safe perimeter; she leans to the side so i can view the show. it’s a win win. well as the shown went on more people filed in and it was harder to keep up the perimeter (i’m only 5’4″ remember) so i moved us to a better vantage point.
then it happened.
2 VERY drunk girls stumbled to our area and one was screaming into her cell phone. we could barely hear the show. my blood was fucking boiling. finally i had had enough. i tapped girl on her shoulder and said sternly, “i’m trying to watch a concert with my girl, and i can’t because you’re fucking yelling into yer damn phone. if you need to talk, move over there.” and i pointed to an area about 6 feet away. girl looked at me sort of stunned and walked away.
my girl was looking at me with a glazed over look of amazement. the show only lasted another 30 minutes and of course they closed with “add it up” and “blister in the sun”. i had us leave (notice- taking the lead) a few minutes before the encore to avoid the traffic and as we drove back to my apartment she was gushing over how much fun she had and how turned on she got watching me telling that girl to fuck off.
she showed her gratitude back at the canton. lol.
you see, ballsy and assertive makes a woman weak in the knees. if it were a dude, i’d have done it different; but i was dealing with a girl so i had to be a tad more “subtle”. regardless, taking control of the frame and the dynamic makes a woman tingle like there’s no other man on the planet. she made a comment on how hot it was that i told that girl to move so “we” could enjoy the show. i wasn’t trying to impress her, i was just keeping my territory MINE.
that’s just what an alpha does.
and just for good measure. a GREAT Alpha song i used to love skating to.
as an add on, i want to thank vivalamanosphere for the linkage and over all scene promotion. bless you Brother.