On Being ExcellentPosted: April 9, 2013
women love a man in uniform. i think most everyone will agree on this. however, i REFUSE to wear my uniform off base. there are people that i’ve known for 3 years that have never seen me in uniform. i really don’t like using the fact that i’m active duty to impress a woman. the way i see it, it’s just a job.
so let’s say you’re a total alpha with game. well, all that means shit if you’re uninteresting. you really need to garner a personality that people are drawn too. i’ve see guys that are good looking bastards, but they SUCK when it comes to women. why? simple.
there’s nothing interesting about them beyond their looks. and that DOES matter a great deal to women. remember, men are the visual ones. looks matter implictly to a man. woman will see a great looking dude, get tingles, then will get turned off by the lack of interesting character.
i believe even in strauss’ book, the fact that he knew game was moot because he didn’t know how to be a genuine person when he found a woman he actually liked.
i recommend reading a few books, learning to cook, take up a masculine hobby, take a trip to somewhere close by that’s a local historical spot, go to a museum, take a class at a community college in a subject you’re curious about- i recommend “public speaking”. now, i’ve read quite a few “heady” books. but ultimately, just reading a book that you’re interested in is satisfactory to women. i read 3 books in the “alien vs. predator” series. is it nerdy? YUP. does the childish subject matter matter to women? NOPE. it translates to them as researching a subject matter that interests me- sci-fi. i can then go into the exlanation of the Yautja clans. i can cook, i have endless stories of my misadventures in the military, i am quite humorous.
taking public speaking is GREAT. most people fear public speaking. this fucks up your game. i used to teach a few classes like CPR, EMT-basic, PTLS (an advanced EMT course) and was a VERY good instructor. people were always amazed how my goofy as fuck persona became a professional, knowledgable individual when i taught a class. all this has helped me in talking with people in general, and made game MUCH easier to inplement.
i NEVER have believed in having a crutch. i COULD use my being in the military to my advantage in the SMP, but i think it’s best to create and over all interesting persona. because i won’t ALWAYS be military. i’m not always going to be galavanting around in a military uniform for the rest of my life. and to be honest, once i retire no one’s going to fucking care. i’ve NEVER talked about my being in the military. it comes up when a WOMAN asks what i do. i simply reply- “radiology”. then they ask what hospital- i reply- “the naval air station hospital.”
that pretty much tell them everything they need to know. especially in a military town like jax. so embrace your strengths, but work on the weaker aspects of you personality to build yourself into an all around interesting man. cus if my sex appeal of a progeria child can make a girl tingle-