Taking a Step BackPosted: April 23, 2013 | |
sit down, i want to talk to you about something. something serious. i made a realization today. in the recent days and with events that are pending within the Sphere i thought i’d share something with you.
i first discovered the community back in march of 2011. one link lead to another and eventually i was persuaded into starting a blog. in the beginning i really didn’t know what i was going to add. the way i viewed it, there were TONS of sites, all putting out good messages. so what the fuck was i going to contribute? i told myself i’d give it a shot. read the first few months i started up….it’s a train wreck.
i fully admit, i got to where i am largely by being a coat tail riding sunovabitch. i got linked to a few larger bloggers and plugs from them. i told myself i was GOING to approach for the sake of posting how the interaction went. what worked what didn’t and i realized, although i was pretty good with woman before blogging, after 7-8 months of blogging….i became SURGICAL.
one thing bothered me about the community though. i didn’t like how the bloggers kept the audience at arms length. it was almost an HONOR for the host to address a comment/er. that to me was a bit sanctimonious. so it seemed like the dynamic was- post, comments, fawning over bloggers “great post” while host sat back on high as his audience groveled at his feet.
fuck that. i DO NOT want to be that site.
don’t get me wrong, there are very few sites i don’t like. everyone has their own voice and style. but so many of them read like a great magazine article educating you on psycho-social issues. “gee, so that’s how hypergamy affects the SMP.” ok, how is THAT going to increase my success in the SMP? the easy answer is, it’ll do VERY little.
what i want is to be a site that you can read and IMMEDIATELY apply it to your daily interactions with women and find success. how do i define success: the ability to effortlessly chat up any women regardless of attractive traits with relative ease. to be able to charm her, to stand out from every other asshole she’ll bump into today. to be able to screen woman rather than having them screen you. to change your mind set from “how do i win her” to “she needs to EARN me”.
THAT’S success with women- not sex. do the above, and the sex will come. i promise. want proof, i’m sure the women reading will HEARTILY agree. i really don’t know too many other bloggers that game their female audience. i don’t know of too many other blogger that USE their blog to chat up women. shit, i did it 3 hours ago.
well, from here on out….i want you to do yourself a favor. read an article and ask yourself, “how can i apply this knowledge RIGHT NOW?” how can you use the article to gain more success in the SMP? since i’ve already burned a few bridges and now know who (within the community) and who doesn’t, i want to up the game. i didn’t start a blog to become “mr cool guy”. i did it to HELP guys. why do you think i could give 2 shits about the grammar, capitalization, and punctuation? you want that shit, there are HUNDREDS of well written blogs where you can feel like you’ve stepped back into academia and applaud the poster for his brilliant post. if you want to learn what to say to flirt with the cute 20 year old cashier. come see me. unfortunately, since i don’t get paid this, you have to sacrifice fluff for context. i think it’s a fair trade.
there’s NOTHING exceptional about me. i’m your average dude next door. i call shit the way i see it. sometimes it seems like the sites can be pretty clique-ish and i DO NOT want to give my readers that feeling. EVERYONES welcome. i do my best to address damn near every comment because i honestly appreciate the readers for taking the time to stop and comment. don’t kiss my ass, make a point, discuss, call me out if you disagree.
if you can’t apply what you’re reading to become more successful….why read it? what’s the point? you read a book to be entertained, or to learn. i prefer to do BOTH. i’ve been blogging long enough to know that 99% of the subject matter has been covered SEVERAL times. i don’t want this blog to be stuffy or too serious. life is serious enough, the SMP should be fun. and the way i see it, this blog exists FOR YOU. without you, there is no Dannyfrom504. so i feel i owe you just as much as you may feel you owe me for teaching you.
sadly i do not read as many sites as i should. first off, i don’t need to. who’s going to teach me how be successful with women. but i will promise the smaller/newer blogs that i WILL link them if they link me. if you have a blog and are linking me, shoot me an email so i can add you to the blogroll.
while i’m glad to have been accepted by the inner circle of the sphere, it’s YOU that matter the most. i’m here for the readers, not the other blogs. we clear? good.
OH LOOK….. Badger’s back.
stay the fuck up.