Deti’s filling inPosted: May 19, 2013
Deti decided he’d mend the bridges of his transgressions of writing for SSM by submitting a guest post. i figured this would be a nice ease back into getting back into things since i really didn’t want to post. working on something now after talking with Paw-Paw and he basically told me get my ass back to blogging and not pining over his declining health. still not in the best frame of mind but….no saying “fuck off” to Paw-Paw.
We all should stop caring so much about what other people think of us.
If it’s going well with a woman, stay in the moment. Don’t overthink. Don’t analyze. Don’t figure it out. Stay with her. Stay right there with her, in the moment.
Figure out your strengths and play them up.
Looks matter to a woman. Maybe not as much as her looks matter to you, but your looks matter to her.
You fail with women because of one or more of the following:
1. You’re not singlemindedly pursuing what you want.
2. You have no life purpose.
3. You fail to remove from your life women who tell you “let’s just be friends”.
4. You do not escalate sexually.
5. You invest and commit before she’s proven herself worthy.
6. You’re boring.
7. You’re overweight and out of shape.
The two most important things you need to know:
1. Hypergamy. is the single most important component of a woman’s sex drive.
2. Frame. It should always be your frame, not hers. Yours.
Look out for your own interests FIRST.
You need to know that women aren’t sugar, spice and everything nice. She’s not attracted to beta comfort. She’s attracted to alpha dominance.
If you don’t love women even after all you know about them, you’re doing it wrong.
Love is the whole point of this exercise. Don’t forget why we’re doing all this: the deep connection, the intimacy, the exhilaration, the fun, the closeness. Love is all, and it’s worth the effort.
Be pretty. Be nice. Be available. Don’t get fat. Don’t run your partner count sky high.
You fail with good men because of one or more of the following:
1. You’re not as pretty as you could be.
2. You’re a bitch.
3. You’re too busy.
4. You’re overweight.
5. You’re a slut.
6. Your standards are unreasonable and out of your league.
There are good men. You aren’t seeing them because you’re not looking for them.
You will have to get serious about looking for a good man.
If you are at HB 4 status or above, you can get sex pretty much anytime you want.
If you want to marry, do so earlier rather than later. If you find a good man whom you love and who loves you, and to whom you can submit, you should lock him down and marry him.
Keep your weight down, your hair long, and your makeup on.
The single most unfeminine attribute running through many women is snark and sarcasm. It’s masculine. It’s unattractive. It’s not confidence, it’s bitchiness. Ditch the snark and sarcasm.