ITLR: 2 Girls 1 PubPosted: May 23, 2013
Lol. I can’t make this shit up.
Alright, I told you a few days ago how I number closed a waitress at my local. Well, after 2 flakes without a follow-up suggestion I decided to fish other waters. Well, I recently number closed a 20 year old hostess at my local. VERY cute girl. We’re getting together this Friday night. Honestly……no big deal, I’m actually talking myself out of it. More on that at the end of the post.
Well, yesterday I stopped at my local to have a beer and the girl I closed over a week ago (that flaked on me) approached the bar to grab a drink order. I playfully called her name.
Not even a look my way. Lol.
So I looked at her, and simply stated her name. again….NOTHING. not even a look.
I was DYING laughing inside. I know restaurant dynamics WELL. I KNOW she found out I started talking to the 20 yo hostess. This is a girl that prior to today ALWAYS speaks to me. Always flirts with me, ALWAYS acknowledges me. I know what’s going on with her and I’m not going to berate her for flaking. I know she has 2 jobs, I know she’s working on her degree that will ultimately be her career. I admire and respect that.
But, on planet Danny, I have my own agenda to attend to. I gave her a shot at winning some attention from me, she had to decline, I moved on. I am NOT short of options (just on vertical height- wokka wokka) in the SMP. I have ZERO issues with dealing with women. Even when you have mad game, the ugly flake monster can rear its ugly head.
Notice her hamster has vilified me, but glossed over her shutting me down. I’m not a woman but I do realize how competitive women can be- ESPECIALLY when the see they’ve been rejected. It truly is a one way street with the fairer sex. Us men are EXPECTED to deal with being turned down as “no big deal”.
Suck it up ladies. Your choices have consequences.
Well, I also learned that new girl could bring some drama to planet Danny, so I’m looking at this skeptically. I DO NOT need the BS she’s got going on. I’ve learned all to well to trust my gut and I got a serious wake-up call about her yesterday. She’s cool, don’t get me wrong, but might have to punch out on girl.
Just like Patrice mentioned, men are like sport fisherman. Sometimes you just like knowing you can catch a fish. You show off to your friends, get a picture with the marlin, and you throw it back. You know you can fish, you know you have a vital skill…..a note-worthy skill. It just feels good to flex some muscle sometimes. Lol.
But honestly, THIS is why it’s great to understand game and take the red-pill. A man with more beta tendencies would keep asking the flake girl out over and over again. He’d still give her adoration and the validation of making her feel chased. When shit goes into “punch out” zone, I unplug completely from her. She gets NOTHING from Danny any longer. Think about it, she knows I’m trying to get with her, but flake girl WILL NOT budge on the “I’m busy” horse-shit.
There’s no point in giving her shit about it, so I’ll just move on to the next one. Do you think her hamster gives a crap about telling me “no”, but BOOOOY does her hamster hate the fact that I scooped up another girl on her own turf- 3 days later no less.
That right there should give you all the proof you need on game and getting out of blue-pill mind set.
And in case you missed it, Stingray had a great write up today. Also, yours truly is now getting traffic from an “anti-game, anti-PUA” site. I’m seriously fucking flattered. I made it. lol. I’m pissing off omegas. WHEEEEEEEEE!!!!