Everyday Game Non-Game

I stopped at the NEX to get me some beer for my lovely 2 days off. I didn’t plan on being in there long since I was tired. I set my beer down and showed my ID. The woman asked me how I was doing and we had a polite exchange. I was too tired to be my normal jovial self and just wanted to get my ass home. Well, the individual before me in line had dropped a pen and walked off not noticing. Even I didn’t notice. Girl pointed out the fact.

I picked up the pen and handed it to her and said, “Your pen now.” I yanked it away before she could take it and laughed. I handed her the pen again and she grabbed it quickly. She looked at it and said excitedly, “OMG it has dolphins. TOTALLY keeping this!!!!” I looked at her and replied, “O.M.G. DID WE JUST BECOME BESTIES???!!!”

I stood staring at her eyes wide and mouth agape.

She giggled and said, “TOTES!!!!!” I proceeded to bounce up and down giggling stupidly as my hands fumbled up and down, to and fro. I told her we could have slumber parties, and do each others hair, and talk about boooooiz. She was audibly laughing. By this time my receipt printed up and she handed it to me. She smiled and I took my beer and walked away. Didn’t ask her name, the whole interaction was done in less than 5 minutes.

Now, I KNOW this woman is married. But the point of this post is to illustrate how game/charm is not about sex, it’s about making yourself memorable, a man people want to be around. She’s going to remember my ugly mug next time I see her and she’ll do everything she can to help me out. Most people go through their day in a fog of faceless people passing them daily.

When you take them out of that, and stand out- THAT’S game. When you do this with enough people, after some time, it becomes a natural reaction to interacting with someone. Then, when you stumble upon a girl that you’re attracted to; you won’t come off nervous or intimidated. The words effortless fall from your lips.

Routines are irrelevant when you make someone laugh, smile, bring them into your world and quit trying to pry your way into hers.

She’s too busy trying to manage her way into your world.

Stay up.


5 Comments on “Everyday Game Non-Game”

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  2. LSCS says:

    Started doing this myself recently. Feels simply great to brighten someone’s day. The girls at the bank light up when they see me enter. And I do it most when my fiancee is with me. She simply loves that she can’t predict how I’m going to engage the people we encounter while out.
    I used to be seriously introverted, and all business. No longer, and life is so much richer.

    Solid advice.

    -LSCS

  3. tj says:

    Hell yes.

    It’s fun, it’s good practice – and if done like this – you get to make someone smile. Failing to see a downside.

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