Harem Reality
Posted: August 18, 2013 Filed under: Girl distractions, Wisdom 3 Commentsi was sitting in my local having a beer, and a guy that i know i know, but can’t remember his name was talking with me about God knows what. well, in comes a guy and girl- they sat right across from my section of the bar. i thought it was one of the girls i mess with, but couldn’t tell.
i told dude i had to take a piss so i had a reason to walk past her, but it was a fly-by and i didn’t seem like her. i sat in the bathroom for about 5 minutes, and finally walked back to my spot at the bar. still didn’t get a good luck at girl, but whatev’s. i sat back nursing my beer and when i looked up, girl was waving at me.
it WAS her.
i smiled, got up and walked over. she got up, and gave me a hug. we exchanged pleasantries and not even 10 seconds in she blurted out, “Danny, this is my bf….*****”. i reached out and shook his hand and complimented him on landing such a cool girl. he shook my hand back, and thanked me. i talked with girl for about another minute and told her i’d let her and dude get back to their dinner. she kissed my cheek, and i walked away.
AWKWARD.
lol. i’ve stated before in this post that if you aren’t in a relationship with a woman, and it’s an occasional hook up, DO.NOT. give her shit when she lands a dude. be supportive, congratulate her. Lord knows, if it goes sour, she’ll end up in the rotation again. as long as you don’t lie and give the pretense of a “relationship”…..you’re a free man.
but……realistically…..so can she.
besides, no point in me going after a relationship right now. and i really do hope girl and dude make it, she’s a cool girl…..she deserves it. lol.
stay up.
I’ve never had a harem before; now I’ve got three soft. One is the ex, and she’s banging other dudes. I’d say it bothers me, but I don’t want to “be with her”, and the sex was never this good while we were married. If she were to take up with someone… I kinda expect I’d still be in HER rotation. I figured out towards the end that I was her “Alpha bad boy”, as she was only ever in the mood during the hot week in her cycle. If I knew game then, we might still be together…. although I’d still be unhappy with the marriage.
Life is funny sometimes. I’m coming to terms with the fact that I’m (probably) a natural.
But gaming everyone is making all parts of my life better. Wish I’d known and taken the red pill years ago.
it’s good to see you’ve finally internalized it. feels great doesn’t it.
stay up.
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