They never out grow their Hypergamy

she friend-zoned me.

no worries, happens to us all. i had a MAJOR blue-pill near over-dose after me and my first italian gf broke up. oh…..i was living in sicily btw (we’re talking 1996-1999). there was a really cute girl working in the ER and i had managed to open her. but, i still landed in the friend zone.

no worries, i bummed rides from her to get to work over a 2 year period, so it’s whatev’s. well, girl’s a slut, or WAS a slut. haven’t talked to her in ages, and i never will. actually, i made it a point to avoid her. see, there were 2-3 guys she was banging during her tenure in sigonella.

well, she decided to date a local guy. it lasted 1 month. she was 22 at the time and had a head full of entitlement. well, local guys are VERY italian and his expectations of a “woman’s duty” did not fly well with her. he lived at home (which is typical for italians until they get married), and didn’t have a job or car. these were the reasons she gave for quitting him. she left sig and her first bf dumped her after 2 months; she was devastated. and her ego came back down to earth….or so i thought. this is exhibit A.

i left sigonella and never heard from her until the advent of facebook. eventually i got a friend request from her, i accepted. i was living in spain at the time (2007-2009). well, she had just gotten divorced and she mentioned needing a vacation. well, me being a nice guy told her she and her bestie (a girl i’d known for years) could come to spain and traipse the country. this was her response-

“well Danny, if i were to accept your offer, it would just as innocent as your invitation.”

WTF!!!!!! i took this as her insinuating i still wanted to bang. well, by this point she was in her 30’s and i lost it-

“are you fucking serious lara. jesus God almighty, everybody still just wants to fuck you. well piss off.”

i unfriended her and haven’t spoken to her since. on 2 occasions she commented on a mutual friends FB on a comment i had made to said mutual friend. never responded. then, the friend that i had invited to come visit with her e-mailed me and asked me why i quit talking to her. well, this wasn’t clear as all day. wonder who put her up to this. i explained and told her i was just done with her princess mentality. i wanted to fuck her A LONG time ago. but at the time of the conversation, i had ZERO interest in her sexually.

i was actually involved with a 19-year-old hottie (more on her tomorrow) at the time, so why would i want to lower myself with her used 30 something pummeled ass. just because she’d gotten off the carousel didn’t raise her value SMP wise. sorry to sound bitter, but my red pill side was coming through and i was offended by her assumption.

this woman had an overly inflated sense of entitlement in her early 20’s and it was still there in her 30’s. some women just never learn; that, or they never change. i wonder, now that she’s on the cusp of 40, if she’s been humbled into being less entitled. my money is on no.

fortunately, i don’t have to deal with that any longer. you’d think as she’d aged she’d have lost some of her hypergamous side. but i guess some women never out grow their hypergamy.

stay up.

12 Comments on “They never out grow their Hypergamy”

  1. Bud says:

    Danny these women never seem to outgrow their hypergamy.

    True story:

    A chick I had dated for 9 months said this weekend we weren’t working anymore and she just wanted to be friends, etc. (for various reasons, I told her I had no desire to be her friend and have cut off all contact and will never contact her again, she takes away the sex and her body, I take away my time and attention.)

    What’s funny is, she will never do better than me.

    She’s 37, has aged noticeably in the 9 months since I dated her, yet luckily for her she still has a near perfectly shaped body as she keeps in shape (runs marathons and does Insanity work out — although she’s also a bad insomniac so I give her about 90 more days until complete burn out).

    Anyway, I am 38, can pass for being in my 20’s (her friends thought she was robbing the cradle when they met me) and make close to $300k per year (and growing) with my own business, no debt, and a lifestyle that lets me live anywhere, travel, etc.

    I had actually agreed to move to the same city as her after she had to move for her job (I thought it’d be fun and would have made more $$ in my business, and figured we could keep the relationship going, I still had a lot of fun with her, and it was what she wanted anyway) but that seems to have led to the downfall. I am thinking maybe it looked like supplicating, and her hypergamy kicked in with that too. A woman’s hamster can be a treacherous thing to them.

    Anyway, my guess is, she thinks she has options now, and is already on and, no doubt, getting inundated with needy, clingy guys with lots of baggage and that don’t fit her check list of criteria (which she won’t discover until dating them, she has priced herself out of the dating market in many ways)… all inflating her ego beyond belief from all the attention. Her hypergamy salivating at the thought of finding some hot, confident, super successful, non-needy dude with no baggage on (lol).

    Even knowing what I do about hypergamy, I will never understand why chicks sabotage themselves like this.

    Age is gonna hit her hard in a few years, while I’ll be going with chicks 10 years younger than her.

    Admittedly I went kinda blue pill out of complacency a few times in the past couple months (I had my slips, but nothing major.) But it’s astonishing how quickly that hypergamy kicks in. It’s actually kind of fascinating to think about.

    Clearly I dodged a bullet with this one.

    I can just see her about 5 years from now, at the tender age of 42, alone, feeding her cats, or miserably settling with some weak guy who she mocks, abuses and despises, wondering what the hell happened.

    Nothing you can do about these kinds of chicks.

    They just have to learn the hard way.

  2. […] she friend-zoned me. no worries, happens to us all. i had a MAJOR blue-pill near over-dose after me and my first italian gf broke up. oh…..i was living in sicily btw (we’re talking 1996-1999).  […]

  3. earl says:

    I have aunts in their 50s that still act this way.

  4. Emma the Emo says:

    Lol 🙂 That’s a good story. I think she might have remembered you from your blue pill days, and responded to who she thought was still blue pill (after all, you didn’t talk in ages). She said what she thought she’d get away with. And if you were a blue pill beta, she would have… Sexual attention never stops, you know, even if it’s less intense later on, and comes from mostly unattractive men. Poor woman. You should have warned her beforehand, that you’re not blue pill anymore 🙂 It’s a story of mistaken hierarchy determination, that’s what it is.

    • dannyfrom504 says:

      I was purple pill, but had no sexual interest in her when I was in Spain.

      I was just being cool. She apparently took it me still being I to her over ten years later.

    • BC says:

      Poor woman. You should have warned her beforehand, that you’re not blue pill anymore


    • dannyfrom504 says:

      maybe, but i was was honestly just being cool. but what she told me set me off. but she obviously thought i was into her. even when we were in sicily, after a while (and a few new girls), i was over it. honestly, once i knew she was sleeping around with a few guys, i lost interest.

      but the fact that after almost 10 years she really thought i was trying to bed her down. besides, read tonights post and you might get a better sense as to why it was laughable to me. girl i was seeing at the time was WAY cool.

    • Emma the Emo says:

      I was just joking. It’s as funny as a person who is used to always being served by servants, seeing a man in a black suit and telling him “Hey waiter, fetch me some wine”, only to be told to f*ck off.

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