They never out grow their HypergamyPosted: September 2, 2013
she friend-zoned me.
no worries, happens to us all. i had a MAJOR blue-pill near over-dose after me and my first italian gf broke up. oh…..i was living in sicily btw (we’re talking 1996-1999). there was a really cute girl working in the ER and i had managed to open her. but, i still landed in the friend zone.
no worries, i bummed rides from her to get to work over a 2 year period, so it’s whatev’s. well, girl’s a slut, or WAS a slut. haven’t talked to her in ages, and i never will. actually, i made it a point to avoid her. see, there were 2-3 guys she was banging during her tenure in sigonella.
well, she decided to date a local guy. it lasted 1 month. she was 22 at the time and had a head full of entitlement. well, local guys are VERY italian and his expectations of a “woman’s duty” did not fly well with her. he lived at home (which is typical for italians until they get married), and didn’t have a job or car. these were the reasons she gave for quitting him. she left sig and her first bf dumped her after 2 months; she was devastated. and her ego came back down to earth….or so i thought. this is exhibit A.
i left sigonella and never heard from her until the advent of facebook. eventually i got a friend request from her, i accepted. i was living in spain at the time (2007-2009). well, she had just gotten divorced and she mentioned needing a vacation. well, me being a nice guy told her she and her bestie (a girl i’d known for years) could come to spain and traipse the country. this was her response-
“well Danny, if i were to accept your offer, it would just as innocent as your invitation.”
WTF!!!!!! i took this as her insinuating i still wanted to bang. well, by this point she was in her 30’s and i lost it-
“are you fucking serious lara. jesus God almighty, everybody still just wants to fuck you. well piss off.”
i unfriended her and haven’t spoken to her since. on 2 occasions she commented on a mutual friends FB on a comment i had made to said mutual friend. never responded. then, the friend that i had invited to come visit with her e-mailed me and asked me why i quit talking to her. well, this wasn’t clear as all day. wonder who put her up to this. i explained and told her i was just done with her princess mentality. i wanted to fuck her A LONG time ago. but at the time of the conversation, i had ZERO interest in her sexually.
i was actually involved with a 19-year-old hottie (more on her tomorrow) at the time, so why would i want to lower myself with her used 30 something pummeled ass. just because she’d gotten off the carousel didn’t raise her value SMP wise. sorry to sound bitter, but my red pill side was coming through and i was offended by her assumption.
this woman had an overly inflated sense of entitlement in her early 20’s and it was still there in her 30’s. some women just never learn; that, or they never change. i wonder, now that she’s on the cusp of 40, if she’s been humbled into being less entitled. my money is on no.
fortunately, i don’t have to deal with that any longer. you’d think as she’d aged she’d have lost some of her hypergamous side. but i guess some women never out grow their hypergamy.