Know ThyselfPosted: September 10, 2013
one of the fundamentals and foundations of game is knowing who and what you are. until you have a firm grasp on who you are and what you want out of life, you really can’t internalize game. i admit, this takes some time to understand, but all things worth doing take time.
most guys will focus on their stronger qualities and ignore thier lesser qualities. in most cases they’ll hide them all together. big mistake. i think you need need to understand and fix your lesser qualities. i’m well aware of my lesser qualities and don’t get hung up on them. they are an indelible part of what makes me me. but i will not use my stronger points as a crutch.
once you understand who you are, your “game” will mold to those qualities.
when i first moved out here my boy was a MAJOR player. however his game was very different than mine. he ran gorilla game, i could never pull that off. but it fit his personality. my game is based in humor andself deprication. once ii see she’s laughing and smiling and i have IOI’s, i escalate. it’s all done in less than 3 minutes. i’ve honed it down to where i tell every woman damn near the same thing. there are slight variations with each woman, but it all comes down to basically the same thing.
90% of it is confidence.
so get a realistic understanding of who you are: your strengths and weaknesses, and fix you’re charisma accordingly. it may take time, but it’s well worth it. ingesting the red-pill is only part of game.