ITLR: The Piano ManPosted: September 23, 2013 | |
So, I mentioned I was going to explain HOW I ended up in the Navy, and make no mistake, I ENDED UP here. Lol. I was a young man of 20, living in a small town in Texas- just outside of Corpus. I had attended junior college for a year, and was working at a refinery. I didn’t like college, and I have severe dyslexia (which accounts for 50% of my typos, the other 50 is plain old laziness) and could not pass college algebra. Still haven’t been able to get past “REMEDIAL” college algebra. So there’s that. Well, I was working at the job, it was a great gig. I had a GF and I was in love with. Life was fucking peachy. One day, I had an epiphany. I was at a friend’s BBQ, watching football with the GF, and I noticed something.
I was there with friends, some had graduated HS 3-4 years before I did, and I drove to work with 2 of said friends. They had a kid or kids. I realized I was going to be just like them. I’d end up getting girl pregnant, I’d buy a house there in town, and I’d be working the job…..maybe even getting promoted. but i’d be there for the rest of my life.
And it scared the shit out of me.
One of my friends had a brother in the navy. He got letters from him from Spain. I KNEW that I wanted to do that as well. Next thing you know, I was enlisted and was going to go to boot-camp, then Corpseman “A” school.
This marked the first adult decision I had made in my entire life and the first decision that did NOT have anything to do with women. As a young man all we think about is pussy. Sorry, but it’s true. Once I knew something other than urine could come from my mule, I was on a mission. Lol. As a young man most of your decisions center around GIRLS. Sad, but true.
But this time, I was making a decision for ME, just about ME, and the benefit ME. And all I wanted to do was live in Europe. I was raw when it came to game, but it came to me eventually. But the most important and biggest red-pill part of my decision was that I was centered on what was in MY best interest. Of course the inability to thrive in academia might have gotten me OUT of the Navy, but really didn’t like coolege. Lol. Besides it’s a sham anyway. This post is meant to send a message to the young men in the ‘Sphere. The SINGLE young men. I fully understand a man that is married is making decisions based on what’s best for his FAMILY, I get that.
No. This is for the 20 year old cats wandering this world in a fog. This is YOUR LIFE. It only happens ONE TIME. What are you going to do with it? Put down the video game, go outside, get an interesting hobby. Learn to do things that interest you that you DON’T know how to do. Once I retire, I’m taking piano lessons. My Paw-Paw was a GREAT piano player. Now that he’s gone I’d like to be the one playing piano. I could care LESS what anyone thinks about it. I have hobbies, things that relax me, things that have NOTHING to do with women. But guess what, ALL WOMEN I know think said hobbies are sexy.
Now, I’m almost 40. I’ve lived all over the world. I’ve learned game, I have TONS of cool stories to tell, I do well with women BECAUSE of what I did in my life. You’ve already found the blogs, so you have a head start. You’ll get good with women, that’ll come as you understand and practice it. But it doesn’t matter how good you are with game if you’re just plain uninteresting. Notice most of my posts are stories from my past since…..well, my life is kind of boring right now since i’m focusing on my up-coming retirement. But I’m actually jealous of you younger cats because you know a lot more about this than I did in my 20’s. Had I known then, what I know now….yeah, I know it’s cliché’, but I blog to pass on to younger cats things I’ve PROVEN works. And look at me, I’m NOT a great looking guy and I’m short as fuck. I want you guys to do me a favor- pick a month, ANY month, and take up a hobby you’ve always been interested in. QUIT THINKING ABOUT WOMEN during this month. Become a better you.
Watch the results, and up your game.
When a woman asks me what I do for a living and I like her I’ll say, “I’m a professional girl kisser and world traveler. I’m also an amateur chef.” Lol. Which isn’t really that far from the truth. They smile and laugh, and of course I compliment her smile. She’ll get somewhat embarrassed and I’ll tell her her BF is lucky. If I find she’s single, I ask her if she taking applications. Lol. Never NOT number closed with that. And it only takes 3 minutes.
Looking forward to hear what hobby you undertook.
As an aside: I’m heading over to NO on the 7th or 8th of October, then Vegas 9th-11th. then back in NO for the 11th-15th. If you’re gonna be in the area, shoot me an email.