My take on the 20/20 BullshitPosted: October 22, 2013
by now everyone’s heard of the whole “manosphere get’s grilled by ABC’s 20/20” piece. i stayed out of it. i fully admit that i’m not the one to speak up for our cause. i really can’t articulate our purpose without coming off as an asshole or someone with a louisiana public school education. so i stayed out of it.
i don’t cite references, i don’t quote articles, i don’t research SHIT on my site. i just speak my mind, and the basis of my site is based on personal experience. i write about what i know, what i live, what i do.
that being the case, i can speak on the bullshit the ABC piece was going to air about us. i’m not really an MRA’r, nor a PUA, i’m slightly more aligned as a MGTOW’r as i don’t want to get married due to the risk that comes with it from the family court system. here’s what i can add to the defense of the Sphere in regards to Manopshere.
i watched my brother in law get his ass handed to him in his divorce and custody battle. and….his ex wife makes MORE than he does. it was chock full of drama: she had falsified documents admitted as evidence, she had much of his evidence blocked, and his ex told him up front, “i’m going to drain you financially as much as i can.” since he was trying to win custody, he fought. eventually she won full custody of the boys.
well, once the oldest reached 18 and she couldn’t collect child support, she kicked her oldest out. he’s now in the army. need i say more? my brother in law is over it now. he’s a good guy, great job. but he’s a pilot for a MAJOR airline. i couldn’t imagine funding and losing a custody battle like he did.
next is the whole “men have no say over how child support is spent” issue. well, when i first moved out here i ended up hooking up with a recently divorced woman. i became a FWB for about a year. she got the house and split custody with the kids. on the weekends she didn’t have the kids, i was fucking her. this was WAAAAAAAAAY before i found the sphere.
one thing i noticed was she was always wanting to pay for shit we did. 99% of it was innocuous: pizza, take out, alcohol, etc. things we wanted for the night to be spent at home. well, one night we were having sushi at a place by our subdivision and she insisted on picking up the tab. i tried to pay and she said, “no Danny, you just don’t know how much money i get from my ex in alimony and child support, i got this.”
i paused. something in me sank. and i refused to let her cover me. from then on, i NEVER let her pay for me.
feminists have fought long and hard to get women on a level field as far as the “women can sleep with whoever they want” front. which is fine. i don’t have a problem with that. i LOVE a young woman living the kesha “care free, party” life. hell, they’re my bread and butter. interestingly enough. these same feminists mostly have daughters who are…..well….sluts. i’ve met these mothers. they are total feminists, they’ve been polluted with the whole “you go girl” mentality and passed it on to their daughters. their father’s are sheep, and these girls are BEGGING for a strong male role model. they don’t have it at home, so they seek solace in a “bad boy”. their disappointment in their family has led them into what said family warns them against.
i’ve had them all: 19-25. hate their family, low self esteem, major daddy issues. they are the easiest and most willing when it comes to pick up and game. they LOVE a man with confidence, that’s bold, that takes what he wants. vilify me all you want, but i’m simply a man surviving in a system WOMEN have created.
if feminists hate me, they can blame themselves for making me into what i am. see, most men are survivors. we adapt, we overcome. the Sphere exists to help men adapt, see the truth of the SMP, and teaches them how to overcome it…..to survive and THRIVE in it.
that’s where i like to think my role in the community is.
instead of citing articles and studies and think pieces, i prefer to offer REAL.LIFE.EXPERIENCE. when a feminist tries to counter, i simply tell her i’m not trying to win her over, i’m just giving her facts. then dismiss everything else she tries to counter with with, “great, NOW i’m definitely gonna get married.” and roll my eyes. when i walk away, they’re fuming.
but remember, we men that have gotten fed up and simply walked away are the REAL assholes. feminists are NEVER accountable for their attempt to reconstruct society. i predict, soon enough, there really won’t be any “good” men, because they’ve left the party.
these guys had the right idea.