ITLR- Do Not Fuck With UsPosted: November 20, 2013 | |
during my talk with Aurini we got into discussing the Sphere. i stated that one of the things about the ABC drama that i thought was most interesting was that most of us know each other. or, at least in a sense, we’re never more than one blogger away from speaking to another writer. so for them to try and paint us out as fringe is stupid. most of us know each other IRL.
but, there’s also some division. God know’s i’ve had disagreements with more than one blogger. and it’s absolute truth that there’s more than one writer that probably REALLY dislikes me, that won’t speak to me- and that’s fine. but, as i told Aurini, the great thing about this corner of the net is that (by and large) we do support the cause. as i told him-
“i’m more about the message than the individual.”
and i mean that. i told him that we really need to have more solidarity in the community; since ultimately the MSM will exploit our divisiveness. i think what the MSM will ultimate realize (and i think it’s apparent we’ll hear from them again) is that we aren’t fringe. we aren’t chest thumping “chain her up in the kitchen” men. we adore women. we LOVE the women in our lives.
but we also see the attack on our gender. and all we’re doing is opening the eyes of men that are waking up to the fact that they’re in hostile waters. whether a man is more interested in PUA, MRA or MGTOW is up to them. there are many voices offering a different perspective on issues that have been ignored or glossed over.
there is a storm coming. and i really hope we can put our differences aside and remember WHY we’re doing this. as an open blogger, i’m more at risk than most of you. and to the feminist lurkers- please realize: ABC got OWNED. don’t fuck with us.