The Realm of Men…We’re Useless…Posted: January 18, 2014 | |
there’s been a good amount of talk lately about men/womens roles. since i was a boy i was molded to be a protector of the women in my family. i ALMOST got into it with my ex-brother inlaw when i ran into him at the house of shock after i learned he hurt my baby sis. i hate fighting, i do. but, in a sense it’s my job to protect the women in my life.
back in japan, i was dating a women for about a year. one night, we were out at a local bar in the honch. some drunk dude stepped to her and she turned him away. no biggie, ladies can usually handle this shit on their own. well, next thing i know, he’d come back, pushed her, and she went down.
Danny went into the red.
all i remember is being dragged out the bar by her co-worker, me foaming at the mouth, and asking where girl was. she soon walked out the bar, i grabbed her hand and we raced to a cab stand. in the cab, i looked at her and asked if she were ok. she stared at me for a good 30 seconds and asked me who i was. *WTF*
when i asked her what was wrong she began to retell the tale to me.
apparently, after she got pushed i ran up to dude, grabbed his belt and throat, picked him up, and slammed him to the ground. i was about to start swinging on him when her co-worker dragged me out the bar. i didn’t remember any of it. i went into the red and just reacted.
our relationship made a HUGE change after that night.
before then, she was used to the jokey, funny, light-hearted Danny. she had no clue that there was a demon beneath the surface. she’s never seen men fight and she certainly wasn’t expecting her current beau to be capable of taking it there.
her shit tests went out the window. when i made a decision- she quietly complied. when she asked me for something and i did it- she thanked me HEARTILY. she became so much more agreeable and pleasant.
i ended up talking with her and she said knowing i would swing to defend her was a MAJOR factor in making her more hot for me and her tingles were thorough the roof. now this was woman was 5’9″ and from east los angeles (the bad part- la puente).
but i think it’s a testament to men being men, hell even SSM’s hubby has been in a fight, and you know what…she liked it. women HATE their men fighting. BUT, they LOVE knowing their men will take it there if need be.
i’ve been out with my freaking Mom, and had shit pop off. i simply pushed Mom behind me and she did what a good women does: she shut the fuck up and let me handle it. she didn’t harass the guy, she didn’t push me; she shut up.
that’s what a good woman does in those situations. ladies, take note.
i HATE fighting, but i have my job to do in life, and i’ll NEVER back down from it. more than woman has asked what will happen when men keep having masculinity punished. i always say the same thing, “those women will be ravaged by the hoard. the women in my life will be protected to my last breath.”